I dated my boyfriend for almost four months. Everything was going great. He is in his 30's and I am in my 20's. We were talking about marriage, kids and etc.... until one night he was supposed to come and see me, but he said he was tired. The next time we were supposed to see each other he got sick and the third time he was busy. I decided to break up with him because I thought he was playing games. But he kept calling me and telling me he still loves me and blamed me for not understanding his situation. so I believed him. The next night he didn't call me. I got mad n I called him telling him it's seriously over, but he kept telling me how much he loved me. So once again we got back together!! I loved him so much so it was really hard to forget him. He kept calling me for about a week, but one day he stopped calling me. He even didn't answer my phone calls. Now after a month he has started calling me again. I have not talked to him yet. Please help because I don't know what to do:(
2006-11-06 01:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by bitter s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's playing with you. It will be hard but forget about him and move on to something better. You deserve it!
2006-11-06 02:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're the one who's not understanding, and you seem very demanding and you're the one breaking up with him.
He breaks 3 dates for legitimate reasons and you dump him? He doesn't call you every day and you dump him? The man is 30, he's got a life, a job, etc. How do you expect him to answer your phone calls when you are not answering his?
Give the man a break. I hope he finds someone more mature to go out with.
2006-11-06 02:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer, Don't call. Believe me honey, in your 20's you are in your prime...have a good time. When they hit the 30's...they start remembering their 20's and most of the time start acting it again. Get someone your own age and have fun....you are too young to stress about somebody that would leave you hanging like that....
2006-11-06 02:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me personally wouldn't talk to him. He apparently don't care nothing about you. I think that to him you are his last resort when he is down and out. I mean if you do end up talking to him just telling like it is. Do expect me to run back to you because that ship has sailed. Hurt me once shame on you hurt me twice shame on me.Tell him that if he is looking for a relationship he can go find one else where. That's the way I look at it.
2006-11-06 02:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by babymiah18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe you need to find out just what is going on with him!!is it work, school , family another gal. You might try and ask his family or friends whats going on with him. Use caution when you approach others,if they clam up ! you know something is going on, keep your guard up and let the ball bounce. good luck
2006-11-06 02:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by echochat40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy like this once and it turned out he would avoid me and disappear because he had a substance abuse problem and didn't want me to know. Could that be a possibility with this guy?
It may be he likes you but doesn't want you to know something about him. It may not be about you at all.
2006-11-06 02:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by tarro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a lil boy you should already know he probably got some chick on the side that's running him leave him alone for good!!
2006-11-06 02:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by WannaKnow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please little friend, this guy loves you so much and i don't think he playing games with u. if you love this guy then be patient for him and understand him as well as don't put pleasure on him because guys don't like pleasure.
you have to call him.
2006-11-06 02:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just use you move on, guys are like that when they want to use you they tell you all kind of lies and story so don;t fell for it, and don;t talk to him
2006-11-06 02:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he playin games.move on u deseve better than that
2006-11-06 02:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by wake up nex2me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋