I dont understand that. He still tries to talk to me. He was just sending me instant messages and I ignored them and he got mad. He didnt have the balls to tell me he cheated on me in person instead he told me over the phone. What kind of bs is that? I just dont get why he acts like it was no big deal. Its like I dont even know him anymore. The same guy that told me that he loved me and wanted to marry me. Its a real shame how some men are.
2006-11-06 01:47:41 · 17 answers · asked by . 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have moved on. I just dont understand why he acted so nonchalant about the whole situation. Yeah I guess it will come to bite him back in the butt escpecially when his babys mamma comes after his @$$ for child support.
2006-11-06 02:00:24 · update #1
same exact shi t just happened to me...count ur blessings that u didnt get pregnant and keep it moving...he'll get his...karma is for real.
2006-11-06 01:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by MsNic 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel you 100%, so men doesn't don't know how to man up and admit up to their mistakes, the best and only advise I can say is move on withe your life and you have already stared by not sending back messages, some mens don't know what they got until they do some crazy s*** like that and relize they made a big mistake, and if he thingk it's not a big deal he will find out when the babyis mommy start coming after him for money then he'll pay more attention the a problem that he causeed and he is the one who needs to reslove it. Their is someoune out their that can treat you like a queen and hopefully you will find that one.
2006-11-06 01:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys can benefit from taking a short break from each other. Tell him that you want to get your head straight. I don't think he's necessarily playing games with you and trying to manipulate you just because he's seeing another woman. Maybe he's really confused about your relationship as well. Be honest with yourself. Is this Jail Guy just a rebound or do you think you can really love him? Don't hold on to your husband just out of security--unless there are kids involved. If it's just the two of you, then give him time away to see how he really feels without you, and take that time to figure out how you feel without him in your life as well.
2016-05-22 03:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sorry to hear that. I never understood why men play childish games like that. My ex tried to break up w/me over the phone also. If these men had any kind of guts, they would tell you in person. But their losers anyway, so be glad that this has happened and move on w/your life. Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only two choices here:
1) Stay with him
2) Leave him
If he cheated, and acts like it is no big deal I suggest course #2
He does not seem to be a fully developed human being
2006-11-06 01:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a crummy situation.
However, even though I know it hurts, you're only putting yourself through pain now. Time to move on. You're always going to be second fiddle to the baby and the baby's mother.
2006-11-06 01:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. But don't judge all men by this looser. You may miss out on a great guy. Cut this guy loose and move on.
2006-11-06 01:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently. he is a very immature person who has his brains in the head of his peter. Tell the JERK to get lost and NEVER contact you again!
2006-11-06 01:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girlfriend,thats horrible! He's a huge JERK...just leave him alone,and tell him to move on too.It's not worth it,trust me!
2006-11-06 02:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing you found out now instead of after you were married and had kids of your own. What a looser this guy is.
2006-11-06 01:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋