ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
2006-11-06 01:44:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's playing a head game. To tell you truthfully, I think she made her choice when she left you. I think she has low self-esteem and gets caught up with wanting you to still be interested in her just in case you have moved on. It's a case of she don't want you, but she doesn't want you to move on and be happy with someone else.
2006-11-06 01:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if I were you I'd stay away. You're doing the right thing by ignoring her, she's just a little more persistent than most. At the very most text her & tell her if she doesn't stop, you're going to have to block her #. Tell her she's costing you money using up your incoming minutes (if you can), or tell her the truth..she's a dick teaser and you're not interested! Bottom line, she's a drama queen. If you give in to her she's gonna cause you grief time after time... continue to move on with your life and without her! good luck
2006-11-06 09:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's probably a part of her that wants you back but she might be "hurt" because you actually moved on! She's just messing with you, move on and find someone that you can be happy with.
2006-11-06 09:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by thekidzmamajojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is clear she is not faithful to you. She should be nice and leave you alone. She is killing you with kindness so she may think. Tell her to grow up. She is lying to everyone including herself.Stand for yourself. Do not allow her to keep hurting you.
2006-11-06 09:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats good u aint responding to her!! she left you. u didnt leave her. so its her loss.so u need to move on and forget about her.
2006-11-06 09:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by wake up nex2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋