i sent my fiancee an e-mail under a different name, she answered asking if she knew me.when comfronted.she said all she wanted to know was who was sending her an e-mail.under her e-mail address...do i believe her
2006-11-06 01:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by lookingforanswe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are playing games and relationships should not be about that. Sounds like you have trust issues and you should not blame your girlfriend for your faults!
2006-11-06 01:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course u should believe her, she didn't do anything wrong by asking who this person was, and u know she is telling the truth because u are the one who sent it, so u know her reply. The bigger question here is the fact that u are testing her like that in the first place! This is the woman u want to marry and it sounds like u don't trust her at all. Trust is one of the top things that make a good relationship so that is something I would work out before ever getting married. You are obviously unsure of her faithfulness at this point and u need to resolve that issue.
2006-11-06 01:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one fail to understand why you should suspect her credentials. When you send her e-Mail under an assumed name don't you think it would have been quite natural for her to enquire if the mailer knew her since she had never revealed her e-mail address except to her acuaintances and he is not included in the list. What else would you have done? Obviously you are trying to climb up with the help of cobwebs and it would only end in you entangling yourself in the net. Don't even think of doubting your choice. If I know human nature I feel that she must have already suspected that you were doubting her steadfastness. So the least you can do it open your heart to her, admitting your fervent wish to confirm that she really cared for you, apologist to her for your being a doubing Thomas and reconnect. Best of luck.
2006-11-06 01:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would believe her, it just sounds like to me she was actually curious to find out who was sending her an e-mail. Why are you sending her mail from another name anyways? You are going to be married, so i dont think you should be "testing" her. You must have some trust issues. I think you should sit and talk with her about it all, she is the only one who can help you with this.
2006-11-06 01:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an insecure individual with serious issues.....I would suggest you let her go..she will dump you soon enough anyway for someone a little more...shall we say..macho and assured
2006-11-06 01:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she didn't know who sent the email, then obviously she doesn't know therefore you have no right to NOT trust her. Grow up!!!
2006-11-06 01:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you and not on other people. You need to ask yourself to belive her or not
2006-11-06 01:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see your problem, you laid an trap, and she didnt trip it
grow up or she will grow out of you
2006-11-06 01:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋