So there is this girl I really like but she does not feel the same way towards me. I am afraid this is because of her past encounters with notorious boys in the school and I would like to show her that i am different and really care for her.
How can I show that to her? What actions should I take?
I am 14. And please no "give her flowers" and "take her to movies"... etc
Thanks
2006-11-06 01:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just show her respect......im 14 too! (even tho i act much older) lol
2006-11-06 01:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her best friend and SHOW her that you can be trusted and depended on. Sometimes it takes awhile for people to realize that the perfect someone is right under their nose. It's not what you say so much as what you do. Actions speak louder than words. If it's something that could be a potential relationship, she will see you for your actions and not what you may or may not have said to her. If she's bitten by past relationships, she's not gonna necessarily beleive what a guy Tells her anyway. She's gonna need to "feel it".
2006-11-06 09:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 14 you should be more worried about your studies, sports, friends, etc than with love. And is you already know she doesnt' feel the same way towards you that you do to her, it's best to keep it inside. You don't want to make it awkward for her. If she starts to like you, she'll find a way to tell you.
2006-11-06 09:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm......
ur quite young dear!!!
wel, if u really feel so strongly abt her, try penning dem down in the form of a beautiful letter or poetry(if u can manage poetry!!)
tat'l really touch her heart..it'l b smthn personal.. n in the letter, ask her out.. to some quiet cafe or somethin where u 2 can talk n u can tel her urslf y u care 4 her n how mch u care 4 her..
all the best!
2006-11-06 09:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by kozizi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as you said you are 14 its good that you will be good friend to her at 1st in that way you can win her trust to you...then try to be close as her friend..because you know gaining trust from a person is by being always there who listen and be nice always...! Good friendship starts to a good relationship. So dont be rush take time to have a good timinng..!
2006-11-06 09:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im dating a 14 year old so this should be fun. lol.
I, personally, think if a guy genuinely shows interest in my life, that it shows that he cares for me more than anything else.
Just show the girl so compassion. =)
2006-11-06 09:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it.
2006-11-06 09:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋