My bf brother does not like me, he's been out to ruin my relatioship for awhile, the 9th was my bf an I 1yr anniversary, now its ruined. Im so sad, he's brother has accomplished hos goals. His brother has harrased me in school an out, almost ran me off the road an all. I tried to talk to the parents but they dont belive it. It got so bad I had gotten in an argument with him, an he threaten to put a restraining or on me. what should I do, the situation is a big mess
2006-11-06 01:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
For a start, your boyfriends brother has got what he wanted, only because you have made a big deal of everything that has happened, and that is what he wanted! going to his parents when he's got them wrapped around his little finger big mistake they are going to believe him over you of course and because you have gone on about it to your boyfriend that has also pushed him even closer to his brothe..... The best advice i could give you is to brush it off you shoulder i know it's hard but pretend you don't care, show your boyfriend that his meddling brother can't affect you, ask him to join you for a coffee or drink and talk to him tell him how it makes you feel when his brother gets involved, but don't make his brother out to be the bad guy to much, just show him that you have feelings too.
Then if you need to talk about it and get it off your chest go have a good tongue wag with your trusted girl friends!
Trust me guys who interferer in other relationships hate being ignored!
2006-11-06 01:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state your age, but it sounds as though you are old enough to drive. Either your BF is a coward because he will not approach the problem with his brother or parents or he doesn't care that much about your relationship. In either case I would seriously think about telling the whole bunch --bf, his brother and anyone else involved to kiss you where the sun don't shine!
2006-11-06 01:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by P/T Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts right now, but you need to avoid your b/f and his brother at all costs, avoid the whole family as much as possible. This sounds like it has the potential to be dangerous, the guy has some serious mental problems and can't control himself. You need to document all incidents with this guy, if he does something again, go to the police, you have to protect yourself. Make sure you let the police know he tried to run you off the road. If you don't have a cell phone, get one, and keep it with you at all times, if he ever tries to run you off the road again, immediately call the police. Good Luck.
2006-11-06 01:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! There will be someone out there that will put you first and isn't that what you want anyway? I know that it hurts now but time fixes all! you will see!
2006-11-06 01:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by scottm1211@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 words :LETIT GO!, tell ur bf's bro how much it hurts, he'd understand, leave them alone then after that, just walk away and say to urself that more guys will follow after this that can be really successful
2006-11-06 01:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just try to ignore and stay away from them.. or suggest getting back together and try to stay strong together.. don't let them affect you..
2006-11-06 01:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone
2006-11-06 01:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by a.d lovez trina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋