if a guy really fancies you, but you came out of a 6 year relationship 8 months ago, would he play it cool before asking you out on a proper date?
ive known this guy a while. i met him thru my ex. hes not a friend of my ex and i didnt end my relationship for this guy.
we have met up a few times and have only kissed. its all really casual. we only meet if we are in town on the same nite together. he was chasing me when i was with my ex too. does he really like me?
2006-11-06 01:07:01 · 11 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is still chasing me now, like he did when i was with my ex.
2006-11-06 01:16:32 · update #1
KNOWALL-no i am not thick. If you dont want to answer the Q then dont!!!Are you thick???Considering your name is KNOWALL ,you dont seem to know very much!!!!
2006-11-06 01:27:32 · update #2
If you've just come out of a 6-year relationship he's probably a bit cautious, if he knew your ex (even if they weren't friends) then he's probably even more cautious, men don't like to get hurt! Suggest meeting up somewhere out of town and do something original or something where you can spend some time together doing something that'll make you both remember how much fun you had and he'll be begging for more!?
One word of warning, if he was chasing you while you were with your ex and it carries on like this for a while from now then maybe he just wanted the challenge? I doubt it but never rule the possibility out.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 01:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by mishmash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look gfrnd,the guy obviously cares about u so why worry?He obviously taking things slow & u 2 need 2 do the same,if u really care about him.May b the guy is trying 2 make things easy 4 u or feel a bit shy 2 do so, so give him time since u knew him 4 a while.
Mayb these is worth waiting 4, unlike rushing things & u end up hurting each other. U don't want these 2 end now right? So wait for the right time & u both will enjoy this. If I were u,I would sit right there & enjoy every piece of happiness we share 2gether!!Showing him how u appreciate him and supporting each other might make him realise that u deserve more than what he's giving u right now and that will make him feel at ease,and it will be easy 4 him to ask you.
gudluck!!
2006-11-06 01:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by keatlaretse y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many men out there who only want what they can't have. If this man was chasing you when you were married and has suddenly stopped when you became available, I think you know the answer to this. He doesn't want to be with you exclusively, sounds like he wanted you because he knew you were with someone else. My advice to you is to move on. You have gotten out of a long term relationship and should just have fun for a while. Don't worry about what this mans intentions are, he sounds like he isn't much thinking of you at all anymore. Good luck.
2006-11-06 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks since you've both just gotten out of relationships that its too soon. He could also be confused as to whether ya'll are just friends. Maybe you could make yourself less convenient for him as in don't meet him. Make an excuse to not be able to go and give him the opportunity to offer to pick you up. If he doesn't offer, that would be an indicator to me that it's only for friendship. I have alot of male friends and it can be confusing sometimes as to what they are really considering you as.
2006-11-06 01:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweets, Maybe you're just sending him signals that say "I'm not ready to be in another relationship yet" ... And if he has a true interest in you (based on what you wrote that seems to be the case) he doesn't want to rush things. Think about it.
2006-11-06 09:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wavey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
settle down, its basically been a week, specific he's extremely taking great thing approximately you, in case you placed it that way yet settle down, you sound overraged. examine the right date out, if he remains appearing the comparable way and doesnt pay for you, refer to him approximately it, do no longer bypass over the suitable. He would possibly no longer locate the money for for you anyhow,
2016-10-15 10:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know.
He liked you when you were with someone else because it made you more desirable.
Find someone esle, and he'll fancy you again. If you want him as your bit on the side, then fine, but it sounds like he'll never commit.
2006-11-06 01:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since its been jus 8 months since u brk up with another guy he mite b trying to giv u some space and time....hey seems like a nice guy....start giving him hints dat ur interested and ready for another relation....
2006-11-06 01:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a nice guy to me go for him a man after me in many ways
2006-11-06 01:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by colin050659 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sure sounds like this guy cares about you and likes you.
plus, i think he waited all this time to be with you. but if he still hasnt asked u on a date its because he doesnt want to take things too fast.
2006-11-06 01:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋