me and my x started dating again we have been dating for 4 months now. he is in the army and i am about to leave for bct he is in bct right now. the only reason we are dating again is because i called him and we started talking again then he said that he still loves me. he tells ever night. well before he went to bct cuzz they can't call anyone. but now we date as i said before and we haven't talked ( before we started dating again) in like 1 year or so. then 1 or 2 weeks later he sayz he loves me is it fate?
2006-11-06 01:06:10 · 5 answers · asked by a.d lovez trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me to marry him before he left i said yes
2006-11-06 01:14:10 · update #1
I don't know why you should be so fatalistic. This is a matter of voluntary choice of you both. By all means believe him when he says he loves you. Such beaks and coming together again are not unusal. When it breaks one also tries to create new interests but ,believe me, the poetic idea that first love is first love is true in real life as well. Somehow the chemistry of the first love leads to a chemical compound and not a physical one(Even if the relation may or may not be physical) Once elements comopund chemically they cannot be separated and even if done what come out are not in their initial purest forms. They take some characters of each other. So do not repeat not try to undertake a futile exercise. And remember it is a matter entirely subject to physical(includes chemical) laws and fate has nothing to do with it. A word of caution for future. Once you settle down occasions may arise of fervemtly wanting to separate. But remember that after allowing the chemical solution to settle for a long time it gets inextricably mixed up. Don't even think of separating then. It will be nothing but pain , pure pain.With the added pain that you would have to hide it by false smiles.Also the products of this cehmcal composition would also bind you together forever,.
2006-11-06 01:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you no if you both really love each other then i think you guys will work out and get married and settled and even though you guys have broke up before you might still be destined to be with each other forever
2006-11-06 09:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fate. It's because you called him and now the lines of communication are opened up again.
2006-11-06 09:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is not Fate...
But its Fate tt brought you both together...
but tink again... what causes u both to break?
and patched?
If you seriously thinks that you love him, and he loves you...
then noone can stops you...
Just go for it...
Its always best to have someone who loves u more den u do...
2006-11-06 09:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can answer this.If you can feel your x really loves you and both parties are happy @ compatible w/ each other go on, why dont you try first to find out.
2006-11-06 09:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by jeayuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋