I met this guy and at first I was like UGH!!! but as time went on we clicked. We dated 3 1/2 months and I really thought he liked me. He always acted a little standoffish, and when he would let himself get close, he would pull away. He stayed at my house every night, and he paid for everything we did. He could never keep his hands off of me, and seemed like he felt something for me. He didn't like public displays of affection and didn't want to say we were dating. We were like seeing each other with sex added. He didn't like to be all up on each other, but if I didn't show him attention, he would get upset!!?? He was jealous, but would never say he was but you could tell that it tore him up to see me pay attention to other guys, and not even in a flirting way, just a friend way. Was I wrong to think he cared. He is with a new girl now and he acts completely different with her than me. But he asks about me, and I don't know. I worte him a letter and he said we could be friends.
HELP!!
2006-11-06 00:31:09 · 4 answers · asked by Daphne F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure on what you are asking. Sounds like you guys had a friends with benefits situation-he found a real GF and moved on.
2006-11-06 00:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you for second-string, second-fiddle mistress-friend, indefinitely. You don't need him. Thank God it for only 3 1/2 months! When you're tempted to call of write him, take a notebook just for this purpose and write down all his qualities and Which of them You Are Going to Avoid Next Time. Life is long. Too long to be suffering with this dude.
2006-11-06 08:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person would always be on this planet, whether you own/love him/her or not!
2006-11-06 08:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by changmw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh? he's kinda weird huh..
maybe he just like getting some attention from you..
2006-11-06 08:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by jhen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋