Last night my guy-friend & I had a really intense conversation where he basically told me I had no chance in hell. I asked him why and...
he said "because of the intellectual connection - for one.."
I said "Are you calling me stupid?"
he said "no just i can't talk to you at a certain level"
I said "damn, you can be fuc*ing harsh."
he said "straight forward and no I didn't want to tell you that.."
So, I got called stupid, yes?
2006-11-05 23:57:36 · 24 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say that you were called stupid. Sometimes, people cannot relate to other people when it comes to certain things (conversations, interests, goals etc.). Maybe he meant that you all do not have a lot in common. I wouldn't necessarily say that he called you stupid.
2006-11-06 00:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shay 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-21 08:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by reatherford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt saying you are stupid after all you did know what he meant by not connecting on different levels.Move on with someone you have more in common with just keep him as a friend. He has been honest with you he could have lied and lead you on.
2006-11-06 00:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes he did in no uncertain terms. Alot of people are at different levels-that doesn't mean you are stupid-just maybe not as smart as him. And it is very hard to have any relationship when 2 people are of different inteligience.
2006-11-06 00:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
And this guy is your friend damn, I hope that slapped him. Or you should at least have got him to explain himself, if he’s you friend you don’t say that. Sorry but yes he did just call you stupid, I hope that he apologized at least
2006-11-06 00:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He isn't saying that you are stupid...he is just saying that maybe the two of you have different interests and really dont share any 'deep' interests in common. Like maybe he is into politics and your into fashion. Intellect is different from intelligence.
2006-11-06 00:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely.
2006-11-06 02:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't call it "stupid" per se. It simply seems that you're not up to his academic/intellectual standards. It's more likely that he's a bit full of himself.
2006-11-05 23:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes he did. Now do you want to hang out with some elitist S.O.B? Forget the loser and find someone else to call a friend.
2006-11-06 00:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't figure it out, then I will answer in a straight forward manner. You are stupid. At least too stupid for him.
2006-11-06 00:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋