She has been my girl friend for the past year now, and i really love her, and she loved me too. But 4 weeks ago we got into a fight. she was irritated by me studying and only doing my homework. and not taking her out enough(i used to take her out every week on Fridays and Saturdays). she continued to bug me for 2 hours and i had enough and i told her to mind her own business about that. and she started making a huge issue out of it. i was sick and tired of it and told her to keep her ******* mouth shut. as soon as i said that i realized my mistake. she walked away and started crying. she even didn't come to our next class. her friends almost the whole high school girls came to me and started to scold me and abuse me. i just didn't do anything and kept quiet while my friends took care of the other girls(i don't know how this became such a big issue). but during our school trip we patched up again. i told her i loved her and she said nothing, then the next moment we were kissing. but....
2006-11-05 23:44:08 · 8 answers · asked by ThE TiTaN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now i feel she doesn't love me any more she started hanging around with some other guys and when i asked her, she said "What are you talking about, you know i love you only. and then i realized she was not being truth full. she also canceled our date on saturday. what do you think about this?
does she love me any more or not?
2006-11-05 23:48:12 · update #1
i dont think so guyz any more
2006-11-06 17:22:57 · update #2
people only have the ability to upset us if they mean something to us. so, obviously, she definately loves you.
She may be deeply hurt at the extent at which you lashed out, especially if she's never seen that side of you before. which would also add shock to the equation, by the way.
personally, I would ask for a sit-down time with her, and just get it out on the table, the what happened, the why, and the how not to let it get to that point again.
even couples need time to themselves as individuals, in order to make the couple work better.
honesty, and open-minded communication- the 2 most important keys to a good relationship. oh, and let's not forget mutual respect.
good luck.
2006-11-05 23:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Well i have a little bit of a similar problem i have also have a girl friend but i always think that she doesnt give me the time.
I sometimes get really frustrated and think that does she really love me or not or is she just too busy for me also.
Ok forget that about ur problem well you told was rude and i shouldnt say wrong u could have had silently explained her everything.
Now think she might be loving you but not that much as before.
Good luck bro!!!!!!
2006-11-05 23:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what...I think she still loves you regardless of what you said to her. Girls can just be a little emotional at times and what you said to her maybe made her just wanna cry because she loves you and ur her boyfriend. But next time when you get frustrated don't be soo harsh. I think she's very sensitive. Well i'm glad yall patched things up because there is no doubt that she loves you. Trust me.
2006-11-05 23:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parent advice - You did the right thing (apart from choice of language)
Parent of teen daughter advice - Girls of a certain age get so unreadable, mate, no amount of saying anything will get half the female population of the school off your back! With girls, bad news travels fast, and believe me,unless you get all the girlfriends of your girlfriend onside.............you're struggling mate!
Add...... Wouldn't hurt to ring a few of her friends and let them know you're crushed!
2006-11-05 23:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she loves u but think she is giving u space after what happened i don't think she wants to be put in tat kind of situation again ask her if will spend some time alone with u this weekend and have a good chat
2006-11-05 23:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she still love you
she is either trying to give you back the same goods that you gave her, by not making time to spend with her on weekends
and she is trying to get over you and move on by hanging around other guys
hope this helps
2006-11-06 00:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too early to tell. You don't care whether if it's emotional or not. Just as long as it's physical.
I do too. (or did when I was younger)
Right now...be happy! Good luck in the future.
2006-11-05 23:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she say she love you that good enough
give both of your time to improved the relationship
love is not an easy things
you needs more than appointment to make it grow
2006-11-06 00:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋