I'm in high school, do you think that it is arrogant to just go up to a group of people out of the blue and ask if you can sit with them at lunch or something like that. I know them all and they all like me and I like all them and I've known them for years even though we're not really close friends but I don't know if that's like inviting myself and it's arrogant and I should just forget it.
2006-11-05 22:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by leena 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not arrogant but weird overconfident grouper habit.
2006-11-06 05:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't handle something easy like walking up to people ya already know at school to eat with them, how will you handle any real situations at your work place or other? Have confidence! Just walk up and say Hey, is there room for me to squeeze in? Don't wait for a REAL answer. Start to sit down!
2006-11-06 08:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go up and say hello, how are you all, do you guys mind if i sit here for a little? Not arrogant at all, just a simple question.. Im sure they wont mind.. and you would soon pick up how they feel about your company.
2006-11-06 07:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by *JC* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I see no reason why you can't ask. I think it would be arrogant if you just sat down without asking, but asking is ok! Now if they say no, then you have a problem!
2006-11-06 07:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by itsjuzme2u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it is not arrogant. What's the worse they can say-No? i just had this conversation with my high school daughter last night. You can never have too many friends can you?
2006-11-06 07:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is confidence. If you had never asked them you may never have known. It is a good thing to have the confidence to walk up to a group of people and ask them something, it will help you as you get older. ")
2006-11-06 07:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Rossco 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go for it what you got to loose? you know them and they know you.if they say no then they are the arrogant ones.besides you cant go through life on an invite! sometimes you have to be the one inviting
2006-11-06 07:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't find it arrogant, it's just a sign of being friendly.
2006-11-06 10:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by linda c 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's arrogant. It shows initiative and a willingness to put yourself out there to socialize.
Go for it and good luck!
2006-11-06 07:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
i dont think its arrogant at all buddy, go for it.
you shouldnt worry too much about things like that, lifes too short.
2006-11-06 07:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by PurpleLegion 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋