i have recenly had a miscarege i cant seem to cope with the loss any advice any1 can give me please
2006-11-05 22:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by Bipolar-Bird88 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Your body is going through chemical changes because of your pregnancy and is now experiencing what mothers usually do, "Post Childbirth Depression" It is very common, but also very misunderstood. The most important thing to keep in mind is, "This too shall Pass!" Everyday will get just a little easier as your body readjusts to your new condition and gradually gets back to normal. Try not to go through this alone though! Talk to friends, family, clergy, etc. You have had a very traumatic experience both physical and emotional, and it will take time to heal. Please seek help if you are feeling overwhelmed and call your DR. DO NOT GO THROUGH THIS ALONE! Goog luck! My heart goes out to you!
2006-11-05 22:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by shaprice1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. I too have lost a child. I got some comfort from naming him - I really feel he was a boy - and writing about him.
I wrote it all out. Also, my faith really developed at this time as I believe God is taking care of him until I get to heaven and then I will get to meet him. If you are religious at all, I found a lot of comfort in the Psalms. I can't tell you that you will get over it because that of course is nonsense. But as time passes, the sense of loss goes and now I think of him with a smile knowing that he's happy where he is.
In the meantime keep talking to your partner, friends or family. Dont bottle up what you are feeling. All the best to you xx
2006-11-05 22:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look forward to the future. You have just suffered a huge emotional loss. The way you need to look at it is that something wasn't medically right with the way your baby was growing. My wife and I have been through many miscarriages. They are tough but you can make it to the next pregnancy. You may have more miscarriages before your body carries a baby. It is a natural thing. Keep your chin up and look forward to the next chance. You'll get your baby when its the right time and the right circumstances. Good Luck and Be Happy!
2006-11-05 22:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by me_laub 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through and how you feel. It will be hard for a while, but it will get easier, you may find it easier to talk to a stranger about things on your mind because they dont know anything about you and they dont know people you know and they can't judge you , or think you are a bad person. You are not a bad person , rather than tell someone you know because you will be upset even more if they spread it around like some people have for you. It will get easier but it will never leave your mind , that baby was your and only yours, you couldnt have done anything different, You know i am always here for you. I love ya ta bits babes. xxx
2006-11-05 22:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is the best way. Talk to people, avoid staying by yourself cos that when you will think a lot. Its very easy to say things will be OK, but you are the only person who is experiencing the pain. When days go by you will see even the severity of the pain will be decreasing. Always hope for the best and never think it is the end of the world for you. Wishing you well
2006-11-05 22:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and feel bad as much as you like, just bear in mind that you will have another baby in the future and even though you will still miss the one you lost, you will be able to move on, have to move on for your child.
Take good care of yourself, follow the doctor's orders and try to prepare yourself for the time when you will be pregnant again.
You will need to be strong then, stronger than ever. To overcome your fears and bring that child into the world.
I hope and pray you won't face anything like this again.
2006-11-05 22:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by veroniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First my heart goes out to you. The only thing I can tell you is to try to imerse yourself in something you enjoy doing.
Sorry I did not have anything else to tell you but if you want to chat more just email me
2006-11-05 22:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your lose, I've never had a miscarriage so I don't possibly know what you're going through. But please you need to see someone about this otherwise it will eat you inside.
2006-11-05 22:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Viviane T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋