My ex of three months from summer of 2005 is still in touch with me via text message. We broke up because he just runs a mile when things get serious with a girl or so he claims. He text me last Monday asking how I was etc. I ignored the text, then last Saturday Night, he text me again, asking why I didnt reply etc. It basically came down to me telling him I have to move on and asked him why he was still in touch. He said he liked me alot and would like to be a with a woman with my personality but gets scary around women when things look serious. I want to text him this morning and say my goodbyes to him because this is really hard for me, still being in touch. He doesnt want committment but I do. Whats the best way of saying goodbye in a text message to him without being harsh?
2006-11-05 22:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be harsh!!!!!! he has treated you very badlydelete his messages without reading them....stand up for yourself you weak little mouse.
2006-11-05 22:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest with him. Get your point across without being too rude and then you will have nothing wrong but tell him the truth. Say something like it was good while it lasted but you need to move on and feel by keeping in touch with each other it is not helping either of you. If you want to be brutal tell him you have met someone else. Personally I would go for option one but good luck in whatever you choose - I hope you manage to shake him off.
2006-11-05 22:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont contact me anymore. I have moved on with my life and so should you. There is nothing to be gained by keeping in touch. I wish you well but I will not reply to any further messages. Goodbye.
2016-05-22 03:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you understand his issues, but that you are looking for commitment, if he cant handle that he should leave you alone. maybe he has changed and wants another chance? everyone deserves a second chance after all. if he hasnt changed then he should leave you alone (hard to get that into a text message though!).
2006-11-05 22:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say...Goodbye...and don't text message him again...no communication what so ever...He'll get the hint.
2006-11-05 22:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ignore him, he'll get the "message"
2006-11-06 00:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋