im very collapsed now, i just want killmyself, life become meaningless to me, im too poor to see doctor and buy medicine.Thank you for your help.Im waiting for your advice and support from all of you.
2006-11-05 21:51:42 · 13 answers · asked by Vietnam 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to get going- get out and do something
2006-11-05 21:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give up on life you have the key to your own happiness life is just what you make it and you can either see your situation as a new begining or the very end if i were you id see it as a new begining you now have a chance at a new begining as for your dad passing its very sad but we all have to go one day including you with life comes death its a given fact you cannot avoid it the only thing you can do is make the most of the life you are living now do the things you have allways wanted to do but what ever you do hold your head up high and keep on living your job was lost but another one can be found a better one the world may take away everything from you but dont let them steal your joy.you know not what death holds and it may not be the answer so why not live until your time to die dont rush into the unknown but one thing we do know about life is your happiness depends on you .
2006-11-05 22:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by chips 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been through the equivalent of a major road traffic accident, of the brain. That is how someone described it to me when I lost my dad and had a breakdown through other stuff too.
So you can see that your brain has an enormous amount to come to terms with and sort out.
Depression can be like a kinda switching off of the brain because it has so much stuff to deal with, it can only focus on the really big stuff, such as your grief and loss of job.
You seem to be at an all time low and I know how difficult that can be.
Take each day as it comes and know that each day your brain will be trying to heal.
You CANNOT, not should not try to do this on your own though. Even though you have no med. insurance, your situation sounds very serious.
If you are very suicidal, you need to be brave and ring emergency services or go to the emergency room yourself and tell them that you are deeply suicidal. They WILL help. It IS urgent.
You need support to get through this. Are there bereavement support groups around through local charities?
Do you have anyone you really trust who you can talk things through with and support you?
Go get help, get it now and you'll be on your way to recovery.
Very best wishes.
2006-11-06 03:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic cure for what you're going through. I suffered this same loss in 1995. First I lost my dad, and then my job! I was devastated! I turned to drugs to ease my pain, and set my self up for disaster! Then one day I looked in the mirror and didn't even know the person staring back at me! I knew I had to do something to get my life back on track. I wanted to honor my father's memory by making something of myself. By being someone he would be proud of. I moved away, and started a new life. I started over with nothing. You must look inside for the inner strength God gave you! He would never put a burden on you that you could not handle! You have what it takes to get through this if you really apply yourself. It won't always be easy, but nothing worth while ever is! Life is never meaningless, but it is up to you to find the meaning! Good luck and I will pray for you.
2006-11-05 22:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to accept the reality that you lost your beloved Dad and your job. Doing sad or sorrow and be affected by your deep emotions, will deminish your interest to live again until your depression will slowly killing you. The best thing to do you should do, is pray to HIM ask his guidance and give you blessing for a new life to begin. Think about the other important members of your family and give them your inspirations so life must go on...
2006-11-05 22:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you need to find real people for emotional support. It's ok to depress , for a time, grieve, get angry appropriately, while looking for another job, practice proper hygiene, exercise, etc... You should grieve for up to 1 or 2 years max. but do continue to include doing the usual routine things, eg, call friends, go outdoors, eat regularly, sleep, even pray when you dont feel like it. Get real with God. He is able to take anything you give to Him.
Pls find a professional to talk to about your suicidal tendency.
2006-11-05 22:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every morning when the sun comes up think about something you could do ie weed the garden or better yet plant some for get me nots and watch them grow also start a journal and list the 5 things every day that your thankful for
2006-11-05 22:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi Peace and lightweight, this is the Catholic faith thought, i grew up as a Catholic, yet i'm no longer a Catholic any further, and with due admire to the saint maximum canonization consistently occurs at one loss of existence, some circumstances this occurs, because of the fact while the saint became alive some contraversy became occurring of their lives or a while they have been the two held captured or in hiden in worry of their lives, and a few circumstances some did no longer have been given the advantage they deserved, so as that they desperate to award them at they loss of existence, I found out this from being a Catholic years in the past.
2016-12-10 03:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st i m sorry about ur father and for ur job. its a great loss at once will what ever happens happeness for good may be ur father was saved by the death otherwise he would have got a secrious desiess..... and ur job well u may get a better job now coz u desirve a good job!! good luck ur happy times are comming, mark my words. take care
2006-11-05 22:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you can find another job on your computer !! if you don't get yourself up and do something, the depression will get worse. Your dad would not want to see you so sad.
2006-11-05 22:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short live it the best u can becouse you only live life once......and everyone gets their ups and downs....so your dad is happy if you continue your life the way you did....visit your dads grave...and telll him about your life and how you feel....you will fell better....always think posotive...because thats the key to happiness....and about your job???....farget it...because you are very preciouse...and any compant deserves you....dont run after your old job...its not worth you worrying...whats mportant is you and your health....you only live life once and you dont get another chance......and remember nothing deserves your tears!!!!!!!!...i wish you all th best.......
2006-11-05 22:07:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋