how do i prepare myself to be alone?

Question

Is marriage a must in a girls life? I may be left alone as per the rules of nature may be after a few years.I do not have any siblings too. I have a good job in hand. I am fairly healthy too to look after myself. But i have a fear and always i imagine myself being alone till my end most of the times.Most of the times i get horrible dreams of my own dead body being rotten for 3 days.I feel very depressed at times.. I want to become strong and prepare myself mentally to live alone at my best without any complains. I do not want to expect myself to be protected from anyone else...but i want to work for myslef and others if possible. Can anybody suggest me how to lead life this way without any expectations and fear and enjoy every moment. looking forward for some good motivating practical answers.

Answer 1

SOunds like you need to get out and get involved socially

Answer 2

Marriage is not a necessity! Many people choose not to marry, and find that you can live life on your own terms. Fill your life with things you enjoy. Get a hobby! Travel! Enjoy yourself. Surround yourself with a few good friends and lots of acquaintances with similar interest. Try getting a volunteer job in an area of interest to "work for others if possible."
I am concerned about the underlying fear and depression in your note. You might want to try some counseling to help you address some of these issues.
Wishing you happiness...

Answer 3

You don't have to get married, and you don't have to be alone. You probably have friends, and as long as you treat them well, they are just as good as family. Maybe even better, because they love you for who you are, and not because they are "supposed to".
As far as being self sufficient, if you are asking this question, then you have probably started out in a way that will help you live alone. All you really need is a couple of friends, and you will be fine. I don't mean buddies, I mean real friends, who are there for the good and the bad.

Answer 4

may be u r living in western country where marriage dont play an important role but it is good to be settle down with a person whom u share a healthy relation u can have yr own babies who take care of u at yr old age .if u have courage to live alone then go ahead but u feel depressed about yr future n death so u must find somebody to accompany u

Answer 5

How do i prepare myself to be alone?
YOGA!
If you never want to experience 'loneliness' then be 'alone'. If you wish to understand more contact me please at [e-mail] and include in the subject line..."prepare myself to be alone"?
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