She had a pretty bad relationship before we were together and she gets really upset when she feels like I don't care about every little thing and when I am not protective enough when she is around other guys. She wants me to tell her what to do sometimes to show her I care about what she does and stuff. She wants me to care about her if she is around other guys. I just have never been the type of person that calls out on everything little thing that has to do with another guy. I mean, I care about stuff like that but she has no reason to do anything and she never has, this I know, but I have always been a trusting person and never felt like I always have to make sure she is doing what she is suppose to be doing. Another thing is she feels sick to her stomach thinking about me talking with other girls or if something comes on tv witch girls in bikini's. She said if I cared as much as she did, I would feel the same way. She also lost her dad who and her exboyfriend cheated on her.
2006-11-05 19:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by I <3 Her 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said she was in a bad relationship prior to yours. He may have been the jealous aggressive type and she may not be used to someone who's mature and not insecure. Unfortunately for you, she may be insecure and she may think that the only way for good things to happen is if bad things happen first. Maybe she just needs time to adjust to a good loving relationship. Explain to her how you show your love in a positive way maybe she's a little blind to it because of her rough past. If you love her enough, guide her through it and be patient. It'll pay off.
2006-11-05 19:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to find someone less needy. You should probably find someone a little more independent. I've also been with someone in the past who was cheated on. They really never learn to trust again and for some reason feel you shouldn't trust them either.
2006-11-05 19:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by gt6303c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.. I'm not a jealous person either and i had a girlfriend who would get angry because i never showed any jealousy and she ended up cheating on me.. because she figured i wouldn't care if she did..
My advice if you wanna stay with her.. start showing a little jealousy even if you don't want to. That might make her feel better.
2006-11-05 19:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cutest factor i've got ever considered a woman do is seem deeply into my eyes throughout a sluggish dance. no longer lots compares with protecting one yet another tight and observing into each and each others eyes.
2016-10-21 08:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one but i belive she is feeling a little insecure because of her last relationship .Its not easy for a girl to trust or a male for that matter of fact once they have been hurt.Just let her know your not going tohurt her like the last guy and that u understand her dad has gone but he will be in her heart for ever and that u will surport her no matter what happens and let her know how u feel towards her
2006-11-05 19:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you tell her all that stuff...she just wants to feel wanted and like you think about her all the time...she likes a guy to be a little jealous the way she's jealous of you with girls...so you can talk to her about youy level of trust and love..to see if she'll change or pretend you a little jealous!!! some girls like that!
2006-11-05 19:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by gabby' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't show interest in the things she does then it is time to find a girl that you are interested in.
2006-11-05 19:25:04 · answer #7 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should jus be who you are and stop caring what your girl will say. Girls dunno what they want, they complain when you dun care, but when you choose to care, they say you're probing into their affair and call you a stalker.
2006-11-05 19:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋