So, is it okay to spank someone else's child?

Question

if the parent is not there or if they are but aren't punishing their rotten behavior? What about verbal reprimanding? Sometimes I just want to beat the crap out of other people's kids but I never do. (Ha ha!)

Answer 1

Understood. However, it is not appropriate to spank someone else's kid. They need to determine their own method of punishment for their children. Instead, you may want to bring the bad behavior to the attention of the parent. In the meantime try non-violence, like the "naughty stool." Depriving them of attention and toys is a good way to show you're upset without rewarding them.

If you're in charge of the kids at the time, verbal reprimanding is ok, but if you're just a random observer, try to stay out of it. If the situation seems out of control and is in a public place (like a supermarket), it's best to ask Mom (or Dad) if she needs a hand. Try, "I'm sorry to bother you, but you really seem to have your hands full at the moment. Is there anything I can do to help?" That way you can jump in without making Mom feel incompetent and the situation worse.

Also, FYI, it's against the law to hit a child with anything other than your hand; and you can't beat the crap out of them. Not only do they get hurt, but that's what breeds hatred and makes serial killers out of the little brats.

Hope that helps!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

In today's society, that is a serious offense. But, back in my day, it was expected that if a parent left their child in the care of another, then that adult had the right to spank if they felt it was appropriate to do so. Of course, if the parent found out later on that their child was spanked for an inappropriate reason, then there would be some serious hell to pay. I will say this, there was more respect for adults for kids back then, and they didn't try to test the limits even one-tenth of what they do today.

Answer 4

Verbal reprimand, yes. Physical discipline? No. No matter what the situation, that kid's parent or someone else that the brat whines to can call the cops on you.
I understand the horrible feeling of watching someone else's kid do horrible things. Sometimes it's hard to keep my own hands to my little ole self.

Answer 5

I don't think it is right to spank anyones elses child unless the parent has given you permission and is not there.As far as verbal reprimanding I say go head and do it.

Answer 6

No. Spanking another person's child is illegal in most states. If the parent is not dealing with a child correctly, you should let the parent know. If the parent continues, talk to the child. If the child continues, beat the parent.

Answer 7

If there that bad call the police!

If they get mad at you they will call the police or CPS or both! Kids today have less respect than ever before! Lieing about you will take nothing! Beware of them.

Never hit a child in disapline without witnesses present! And don't do it in anger. I know that sounds stupid, but picture yourself in court. What do you want to be able to say??

Answer 8

Yeah thats a big no! I found out anyone spanked my child. Oh lord have mercey.

Its not right. They may do the some displining but the parents should do the spanking (if they believe in that)

Answer 9

umm no, I see it like this...would I like it if someone came along and spanked my child? HELL NO! but a verbal reprimand is absolutely fine whether the parents are there or not...I spose its a matter of how well you know the parents and whether you are comfortable with doin it.

Answer 10

No, you can't discipline other people's children at all, unless you're in a situation where you're in charge as the caregiver. Which you yourself I hope will never be. Outside of what the law considers abuse, it's completely the parents responsibility how and when to discipline their children. If you don't agree, the most you can do is give them dirty looks, or make some indirect remark and hope they get the hint, although it probably won't have any effect.