we've been together for more than a year now, a few months atfer we were together he told me he had a galfriend but by then i was already dick whipped and he made it sound like he was gonna leave her for me. now after almost 2 years he told me she is pregant and he is marrying her. my head tells me i should let go and move on-if only my gullible heart could be so understanding. it tells me i shld stick around, i knw there is nothing wrong with following my heart but where to? i am being deceived by my own heart-he says he doesnt wnt to end our relationship. help me out ï'm falling apart
2006-11-05 18:23:36 · 11 answers · asked by tott 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should get over it.
One, you are the other woman, he is cheating on her with you. It is very wrong of you to stay involved in the relationship when he is already with someone else.
Two, neither of you should be with him, he is unfaithful, and will probably cheat on anyone of you with another girl.
And if he does marry her, you should definitely stay away. You would not want your husband to cheat on you, would you?
2006-11-05 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by ;-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you choose to get into a mess does not your heart or soul have any thing to say when you are getting into a mess. This man is two timing you and has told you also. But for what ever reason you chose to stick on with him. Follow your heart leave Him now for good he is not your man neither is he a good man
2006-11-05 18:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind a jurk is he playin d ick slap with 2 girls.im a guy and i think hes a jurk.i would never do that.he should hav just chose 1 of u.and had a true love and romance filled relation with that 1 person
U should always leav a guy when he has a gf.and he should leav other girls alone when hes got a gf.
U know what hes doin.hes not goin 4 her either coz he likes her.just usin her.
2006-11-05 18:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by u know me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is getting married to a woman whom he pregnated, you shouldn't be getting into his affairs. You have to accept the fact that you need to move on with your life. You need to align your mind with your "heart", I quote heart because the heart is nothing more but an organ; it does not house our feelings. Once you can understand this, you will be able to continue life easier because your mind and your "heart" have now come together rather than opposing each other.
2006-11-05 18:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nasty guy. Im sorry that you feel used, and that you feel like you wasted some of the best years of your life on that sorry excuse for a man.
It is probably not going to help to tell you to get single and available again. He is probably just waiting for you to say its ok to keep you on the side. No bloody way !
2006-11-05 18:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this one question:
Could you deal with being the "other" woman forever?
You deserve better and the girl he is marrying deserves better. If he cheated on her, he will cheat on you, too.
I know that it is hard, I am going through a break-up myself and at times I feel like a fool-hurt, angry, lonely and sad.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 18:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right on all accounts! Dick whipped is dick whipped!
Sorrry, just using your terms.
Give it up girl. He was justing using you..
Move on...
Maybe you can whip somebody elses dick!
2006-11-05 18:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he married her, do u want to be the other woman? the one he is hiding in the closet and can't be shown to everybody? how owuld you feel about that? just come to think of it. it is self explanatory and u can decide on your own. goodluck and wake up girl.
2006-11-05 18:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out of there. He's obviously cannot be trusted. God knows what lies he'll tell U in the future.
2006-11-05 18:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he can't have it both ways. Either he is with her or he is with you. It sounds like he is with her. Don't be the "other woman." Move on.
2006-11-05 18:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋