me and my ex was together for 8 years. the last half of the relationship was long distance. i really loved her and was very faithful to her and vice versa. the distance proved to be too much for her and she wind up cheating on me and getting pregnant. she told me she wasnt with the guy anymore and the pregnancy was accident. she hasnt called me since before the summer. she told me all of this on the internet. i talk to her online every now and then. she wont call me because she said she feels funny talking to me because she is pregnant. before that she told me she didnt want to call me because she didnt want to get her feelings wind up for me again. im just being a friend to her right now. we kinda staying friends. should i be taking to her at all or should i leave her alone. i still care for her very much. we used to be real tight and close. she still wants to be my friend. am i making a mistake ?
2006-11-05 18:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by craig h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you are
2006-11-05 18:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by sayakha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOpe its nice that after all what happen you still want her to your friend...i understand that you still care for her since you really loved her but if she's not inlove with you anymore i guess better to forget her and leave her alone. If she wants your friendship then thats nice being friend for life is nice thing. If you are ready to forgive her and accept her pregnancy to other guy and she asking your apology and 2nd chance well start all over again and accept her for what she is...! Goodluck
2006-11-06 02:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should leave her alone. She cheated on you and is now carrying someone else's child. The whole situation is too complicated and everyone deserves someone who can be faithful. Good luck.
2006-11-06 02:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somewhere, somehow one makes a mistake, and that's why we are called human. for the meantime, let her go and move on, you can be friends after all, just reflect to yourself what u really wants from her.
2006-11-06 02:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by kish-kish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone sleeps with someone else they are connecting with someone else only in a way they should connect with their mate. It is a betrayal. Leave while you still can and you become the father to someone else's baby.
2006-11-06 02:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysthebestanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your setting your self up for a great disappointment it seems to me like your pining for her and she let you go a long time ago.
2006-11-06 02:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by steffi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you used to be real tight and close,but she betrayed your relationship and your friendship.she doesnt need you and you most certainly do not need her. there is no need to talk to her.as a matter of fact at this point its unhealthy for you and for her
2006-11-06 02:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by seth s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just feeling guilty thats all..but if you are sincere in wanting her as fren, be there for her. She may wants it but you just need to know it!
Thats what fren are for..
2006-11-06 02:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go! if not, you will only be hurting yourself. it may not be easy but in time it will be all good.
2006-11-06 02:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let go of her and move on.
2006-11-06 02:21:33 · answer #10 · answered by xinheforbes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋