Should you wait to have sex?

Question

In a relationship does it really matter if you wait for sex? What are the pros and cons?

Should you until your married to have sex?

Answer 1

first things first use protection whatever you decide

second: how old are you?

i ask because that really does make a difference
its not just a physical thing but an emotional connection
really

and i should tell you that all guys are after one thing and one thing only.....faster download speeds j/k :)

if someone is pressuring you to have sex... you don't want to be having sex with them.. tell him to go find someone else and yeah that's has got to be hard to say... especially if you like him but the one thing to remember is

once you do it you cant take it back
you want it to be memorable and not in bad way
talk to your friends or to a trusted family member
bad stories about someones first time are plentiful dont add your name to the list of people who wanted to wait but didn't


all that said though sex is great!(great being an understatement)
but really its up to you no matter what anyone Sez

be safe!!!!! and good luck

Answer 2

Yes. It can be hard to wait because we are tempted. We might not want to wait so we need to avoid the temptations and focus on the relationship. Take a step back and look at what is really beautiful and how that will change if we fall to that which is destructive. In marrying we accept the responsibility associated with sex. Before then it is irresponsible and selfish.

I know two young girls who had sex. Neither guy will marry the girl, and at least one wants nothing to do with her or the child.

Answer 3

The pro's are that guys make a big deal out of having you for the first time, which is the way it is really supposed to be. The only con's I can think of is the STD's, pregnancy, and experience. But if you wait, and you find someone who really loves you, you will get all of the experience you need anyway.

Answer 4

it does matter if you dont or do wait...if you dont wait then the guy will think your a desperate nifo or he will think your easyand even a hoe. you dont want him to think that of you. Im sure you have morals. now the pros is that now adays ppl dont care of that stuff i mean for example when you buy a car you have to test drive first to see if oyu like the way it drives. well you have to test aguy first in allways sexually and etc to see if you like what your going to get into, because believe it or not sex is a big issue in relationships. your not going to be going out with a guy that you dint like the way he pleases you. so it various in different ways. what matters is what you feel and how you take it upon yourself.. by the way would you think you can post up a ques for me please because i have reached my limit im doing a project for school all i want to know is what is the definition of diplomatic relations> thanks I would greatly appericate it

Answer 5

Hi Meg
I think that you should alwys wait to get married to have Sex. Look at it this way . You lioose your viginity to your bf then you break up and never get married. then you meet someone else and you get married.wont you feel guilty that your husband is not the one who broke your virginity? He will also feel bad. It is good to wait because even b4 you do a church wedding or a muslim wedding i, it is important for the newlyweds to be virgins.....

Answer 6

pros on waiting: you know he loves you bc he will wait no babies no drama bc you did, You have better relationship bc you waited no stress bc you did do it and you are worried about your parents finding out not having to worrry about stds or aids. Cons: slam bam thank you mam he will leave you after he gets what he wants you have a baby he leaves you and you are stuck, you end up breaking up and then stuck with a baby, you get stds and so on so forth. JUST WAIT it is better trust me.

Answer 7

Nah. You only live about 100 years, if you're lucky. Why waste so much time sweating over something that's natural and fun? But be responsible and use protection before taking the leap. Just because you can play, it doesn't mean you can abandon all cares.

Answer 8

I think you should wait for at least a couple of months. Sex really confuses things and having it too soon takes your relationship to a place it's not really ready for.

Answer 9

To me sex is so deeply personal, and a totally giving over of yourself to someone. I would never have been comfortable or would have felt deeply used or inwardly bruised to give that much of myself to someone other than my life mate. But this is just how I personally feel--I can't speak or feel for other females. But just make sure and question yourself very deeply that you won't feel used by the relationship if you give yourself over so intimately.

Answer 10

i haven't had sex but yes i think you should wait to have sex because sex is like a first kiss. its the most memorable moment in life...i guess. and the con is that you could get some disease or get pregnant.