I am a very romantic type. my man is not realy into romance or setting the mood. He's more of a casual " lets do it with the TV on "type.
how can i get him to be more romantic?
2006-11-05 18:09:21 · 13 answers · asked by MRS PINK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Changing him is going to be hard. He may not know how to be romantic and is scared that he will not be successful at it. Talk with him about it and make suggestions and hopefully he will see how important it is to you and be willing to try. Good luck.
2006-11-05 18:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Miss Pink but I'm gonna have to just tell you like it is.
If he's not being romantic, it's cause he don't want to. That's the truth and if anyone says otherwise they are lying to you to spare your feelings.
I've had girlfriends that I wasn't about to do anything romantic for. They just didn't make me feel romantic. But my girl now, I've done a bunch of stuff for her. I, one time, spent $250 on teddy bears and flowers alone for her. And I regularly make her feel special cause she is to me.
If your mans not doing that for you, I would suggest getting one that will. And soon cause... well I dont think he's too into the relationship now.
2006-11-06 02:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to encourage him. You plan a romantic date and let him know you're planning a special time for you and how he should dress.
Romantic doesn't have to be fancy or cost money. You could fly a kite in the park, go star gazing, make s'mores in a backyard fireplace or barbecue.....something where the 2 of you will be paying attention to each other.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 02:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very hard to change a person, but you need to guide him and let him adjust to the things you find romantic. We humans have adjusted to just about everything, not easily though, samething with feelings. You have to guide him as a baby, and he has to be willing to participate, if not, don't expect any change.
2006-11-06 02:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to 'drop hints' like crazy and see where that gets you !!!
Or have a romantic dinner/ even better you can take him out to dinner and then he'll get the hint and will return the Gesture !!
2006-11-06 02:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy will be as romantic as you want whenever you want if you give him what he wants in bed. All guys love oral and anal. If they tell you they don't then they are lying! You do that for him and he will ALWAYS be as romantic as you could ever dream of. I would bet my last dollar on it! He would not take a chance of ever loosing you then!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 02:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to accept your man for what he is and not for what you want him to be. In order to achieve ultimate happiness and successfull marriage you must both accept each other before committing to yourselves.
Romance can be achieved, but do not expect it from his side. YOU set the mood.
2006-11-06 02:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by GhandiDahandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his attention and tell him what you really need to make it or him more romantic. You could dress him up! Tell him how to talk!
PS He will really do that for you if he really loves you.
2006-11-06 02:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, you cant change a person. all you can do is communicate your desires with him and then it is up to him.
2006-11-06 02:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite a girlfriend to join you in the bedroom and have a threesome.
2006-11-06 02:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋