All of the boyfriends I have had made my spend my money on them. One thing at time and each time it costs more. Like first he want a shirt, that a watch, than a dvd/vcr, then a tv/dvd/vcr. With clothing it is ok because if I have extra money I might see something and I think "My boyfriend would like this" so I get it. But it not that often. Then he starts to ask for stuff. I say not until you give me something. But the only thing I got was mind-blowing can't walk sex. What is up with that?
2006-11-05 18:08:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are buying stuff for guys instead of them buying for you......us men call that a "SUCKER"
they are using you and nothing more. quit buying them things and being a push over. a present here and there is fine...but if someone asks you to buy them something....flat up be rude and say......what the F for? I'm not your mommy. Its your job to buy ME stuff.
2006-11-05 18:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
this is bizarre - I have never asked a girl for finance and I think its amazing you talk about this as if it was the norm! But I have my own money.
My advice is dont buy anything for any guy, nothing at all, and soon you will get guys who date you because they genuinely like you.
I maybe wrong but you come over as someone that kinda pays for sex, sorry but thats the impression. Cut it out and start respecting yourself, or if you want to pay, then dont go with guys who pretend its a relationship.
2006-11-05 18:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are not the brightest bulb. By the way you speak and spell I imagine it is pretty easy to take advantage of you. Maybe you should invest in learning and an education. Then you would see that you date con artists. Pretty much jerks who want you as a sex toy who can buy them gifts.
2006-11-05 18:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not had a boyfriend. You have just been around people that used you! Worse, you allowed them to use you!
I would think that your own integrity, the knowledge and value of your own self worth would motivate you to higher standards for
relationships on any level.
One thing is certain, if you do not give, they cannot take unless it is with force, and that is criminal!
2006-11-05 18:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what more could you ask for? A wheelchair, perhaps?
.. No, I am kidding. But hey, they know it won't put a damper on your wallet, so they ask. If he loves you and you love him, money is not the matter.
2006-11-05 18:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse. And stay away from sex outside of marriage too, it's wrong and they're using you as well as your money.
2006-11-05 18:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend all of your money on anyone. When he asks, say "buy your own".
2006-11-05 18:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date men that take your money
2006-11-05 18:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-11-05 18:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋