I really like this guy. I don't want a relationship with him, but I would like to sleep with him. I have known him for a few months now and all we have done is snuggle in bed all night together. He hasn't made any moves on me. I am afraid he will lose respect for me if I make the first move. I don't know how much longer I can take it though, he really turns me on! Do you think maybe he hasn't made a move because he doesn't like me sexually, or he is just being respectful?? I know I'm not ugly, I am considered attractive. One thing you should know is that he used to be very religious before his seperation and divorce from his wife which was only a year ago. I'm so lost!!
2006-11-05 17:39:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I do want a relationship with him. So I do care if he respects me. We are good friends and I want it to stay that way
2006-11-05 17:44:32 · update #1
Well if you don't want a relationship with him, just make the first move yourself. Can't sit around wondering what could have been. Make the first move, if he goes with it you know you're money.
2006-11-05 17:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by nuckles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN SOME CASE THEY WILL LEAVE IT ALONG IF THEY GET
TO SOON. BUT IN YOUR CASE IT REALLY SOUND LIKE
HE REALLY JUST WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU BETTER
SINCE IT ONLY BE A SHORT TIME, AND THE FACT THAT
HE JUST GOT DIVORCED. SO JUST GIVE TIME,IT MAY
WORK IT SELF OUT.BUT UNTIL THEN TALK TO HIM
AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU REALLY FEEL ABVOUT THIS
IF NOTHING ELSE STOP SNUGGLE WITH HIM UNTIL YOU
BOTH ARE READY . THEN IT MAY NOT BE SO HARD
BUT GET EVERYTHING OUT IN THE OPEN AND THEN
SEE WHERE THIS WILL GO.
2006-11-05 17:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me, you're just curbing his appetite to have someone to sleep next too. You mentioned he was previously married, perhaps you fill the void of loneliness. Then again, he could be a gentleman and is waiting to know you want more before he precedes any farther. Talk to him about it.... you're friends right?
2006-11-05 18:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's been to bed with you all night and hasn't made a move on you?Then he's gay.And why would you care,all you want to do is sleep with him,so throw it on him already.
2006-11-05 17:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want a relationship with him than what else do you want? Obviously to sleep with him is your goal so why care if he respects you?
2006-11-05 17:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by acezr2wild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with us before marriage, we lose respect for you. Young guys don't understand this because they are too busy thinking with their sex drive. Once they get older, they'll understand
2006-11-05 17:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by lefty 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
when you in bed start massaging his package!! he will get the hint
2006-11-05 17:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by joe h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, she is too easy with me, then what says she won't be easy with someone else.
2006-11-05 17:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by cubsfreak2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋