I struggle with my weight (I have been for a long time) but I go to the gym almost every day. Does a guy care about this or is it all just body image? How fat is too fat? What kind of clothes do guys like? I don't think that guys like girls who dress like sluts. What about hair? Curly or straight? I'm so lost!
2006-11-05 17:27:04 · 14 answers · asked by Sarah T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, just the fact that you are working at it goes a LONG way with us. We do care, but it's not the scale weight as much as proportion. We DO like girls that dress like, as you put it- sluts- but we don't see those girls as sluts.
Sluts is the name jealous girls give the girls who are playing by guys rules. Just like guys call other guys sissies who dress like a girl wants- get it? These people make up names because they can't compete for what the other sex wants.
Hair is VERY important- straight, not curly, because curly reminds us of pubic hair. Straight is clean soft smooth feminine. Long, like down the mid back, and boob height in the front. We also like highlights. Also, if you can wear very light pink, and wear perfurme like Very Irresistible, man that helps a lot .
2006-11-05 17:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, there are many of us guys that only look for girls that dress like sluts. For the better part of the male community, wear something cute, but not too formal or anything. Almost every guy likes some sort of a tease. Don't worry about your weight, there are always guys who care about your personality more.
Oh, and personally, I prefer straight hair on women.
2006-11-05 17:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Common Sense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a woman with a bit of weight. A size 8-16 seems healthy to me. In reality it doesn't really matter so long as I am comfortable in her company. An unhealthy looking woman makes me worry about them so I can't be comfortable. I don't care what cloths or what hair a woman has so long as they look appropiate for the situation
2006-11-05 17:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by John T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the ideal weight is what the doctor says you should weigh. If let's say you are 5'7" tall and have small bones you should weigh about 115 to 125 pounds. Most guys are really turned off by heavy women, let's say you are 5' 2" tall and you weigh over 200 pounds !! that is just gross If you are 5' 2" tall you should weigh about 100 to 110. Easy to put on hard to take off, you are what you eat. The clothes vary from person to person, I like dresses myself on women dresses make them attractive. The hair is personal wear it the way you like it but keep it neat.Not too much make-up either that turns most guys off, But always smell good that is a must. Being over weight can and does affect most guys as to how they look at you, They see FAT and they think LAZY. most do anyway, Eat correctly and exercise and you will be OK.
2006-11-05 17:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the guy. Personality is always the most important for a long term relationship, but the closer you are to the ideal shape the better introduction card you have. You ask too many questions. Clearly, you are insecure, need some counsel and anti-anxiety pills and one of those short modeling courses available in most cities.
2006-11-05 17:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like women who are attractive, while others don't consider it too much. Personally, I would like to be physically attracted to my partner atleast a little bit. I think too fat would be 130+? On a womens average height. I like girls who dress intelligently, in womens suits and skirts. Hair, I do not mind as long as it is pretty and long enough to know that shes a woman.
2006-11-05 17:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Curly hair is sexy, but so is straight.
As far as weight goes, 10 to 20 lbs overweight would be ok. It really depends how you carry that extra weight though.
Slutty clothes are nice eye candy, but I would not prefer to be dating the slut.
2006-11-05 17:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Wade M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be lost. For me, weight isn't as much of an issue, as how a woman CARRIES her weight. How she dresses. If she has clothes that fit her well, that accentuate her looks, then it doesn't matter if she's a little bigger. And attitude counts WAY more than weight with me.
2006-11-05 17:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's more to people than what is seen by their appearance because the true person is within. Be known for that person. However, regarding appearance, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and I've seen that there is somebody for everybody. I've also seen some beautiful healthy, thick, women that have won my admiration because of their heart and personality over their looks. But neat is good and appreciated too.
2006-11-05 17:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by dubdwells 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys wanna get laid, period. they love chicks that dress like sluts and look good. but for serious relationships hey want a lady on the street and a freak in the sack!!
2006-11-05 17:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by Y.K.W.I.A. 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋