My boyfriend was 27 yrs old when he was murdered. I was helpin him get his life back on track,he even had secured a job as a welder. Meanwhile I was 18 freshman in collge, and the both of us 2gether were working to provide a better life for each other and our future kids. He had tried to start a relationship with me when I was 14(trust me I looked like I was 24), but instead he waited until I was 17. He fell in love with me and I did slowly. During the last week of his life he cheated on me, he never had the chance 2 confess it but I later discovered pictures of him in the new home we picked out that I did not take. I believe his cheating began at to wards the last few days of his life when he got jealous of me being away from him@skool,so in all that empty time he cheated.
Anyway its been 1yrsince his death and I love him dearly, I just wonder what do u think he would have done if I was murdered.I know u don't know him personally but given the scenario.Do u think he moved on by now?
2006-11-05 17:22:10 · 10 answers · asked by Gifted and Gracious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, considering he cheated, he sorta moved on before anything happend. I'm really sorry that that happend. That is horrible, but I really do think he would have moved on by now. But as for you, as soon as feel you are ready, then that is the time to move on, not the time you think somone else would be ready.
2006-11-05 17:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by cowgoesmoo31 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one....after a loved one dies its hard to move on...being that he had cheated on you chances are good. but no body will ever know...hope ur hanging in there ok and all works out
2006-11-05 17:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um not to sound insensitive. But if he cheated on you while you were alive, he definately would've moved on by now. I'm sorry for your loss, but you deserve better and need to find a good man who will not cheat.
2006-11-05 17:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY FOR YOU LOSS, BUT DONT WORRY ABOUT
WHAT IF. JUST THINKING ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES THAT'
YOU HAD, AND THE LOVE THAT YOU HAD FOR EACH
OTHER AND LEAVE THE PASS IN THE PAST.
2006-11-05 17:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men move on quicker than women you just have to know that to start. Women are naturally more emotional. I encourage you to move on. He would want you happy you know that, he couldn't expect you to remain focused on him, knowing he isn't coming back.
2006-11-05 17:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by cubsfreak2001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its hard to move on after a loved one dies. i think he would've wanted you to have moved on. and if it had been you i think he would be racked with guilt for cheating on you.
2006-11-05 17:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by collgegrl11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was a blessing in your life, but you must move on .
2006-11-05 17:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Toneva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grieved then moved on with his life
2006-11-05 17:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by John T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are dogs!! we probably would not be in a relationship...but we would be having sex with another women by now
2006-11-05 17:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by joe h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is hard and i really don't want to answer it..but i think youknow by his actions what he would have done...
2006-11-05 17:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋