When my boyfriend and I have sex, he sometimes is difficult to make hard (but he sometimes is hard immediately) and when we have sex, he will go on forever sometimes but instead of reaching an orgasm he will go limp at least 4 out of 6 times. It is really bothering me!!!
2006-11-05 17:12:29 · 15 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is also only 18, and I am his first so we have no idea if it is something that is newly developed or not. Also, he used to be fine when we first started, but now he has that problem!!!
2006-11-05 17:19:19 · update #1
That's either a serious psychological problem or, more likely, a medical problem. If he has the same problem when going solo then it'd be a good idea for him to see a specialist asap.
2006-11-05 17:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by wimbledon andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi fussy, its kind of tough for an 18 year old guy to see someone about this. It is not normal for a healthy young man to lose an erection in this way unless he is getting plenty of it elsewhere or its boredom. I would suggest he starts with his GP to check out any medical reason and take it from there. I hope you can both talk about it to each other, that is really important.Good luck
2006-11-06 01:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some sort of erectile dysfunction. Can be treated with pills like viagra, but best to see a doctor or sex therapist to discover any underlying psychological problems.
Above all - don't worry too much about it - it'll make it worse.
2006-11-06 01:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls bring him to see a doctor for more consultation and professional advice. We can't offer the best help or advise to you.
2006-11-06 05:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best to search the internet for sex info & advice etc.
if u get no help the get him to see a speciallist of relevent sort.
good juck and happy *******!
p.s. maybe try strip teasing for him?
2006-11-06 01:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by PurpleLegion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a psychological impotence. What is stressing him out?
2006-11-06 01:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely something wrong and he should see a doctor about it...it is some form of dysfunction.
2006-11-06 01:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to try Viagra. It's made specially for this kind of problem.
2006-11-06 01:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stress or booze I'd say, try plently of foreplay etc.
2006-11-06 05:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by garfet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u should avoid forplay before sex.
if u want to try some drugs then u should try silagit(herb).It is totally natural and noside effect
try it.i recommend as i try it occasionally,it works
2006-11-06 01:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by night_corn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋