When I look at myself in the mirror or pictures am really ugly and girls in Jr.High never noticed me or anything :(
2006-11-05 16:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone will at themselves in the mirror and think they're ugly at least ONE time in their life. I have... But I'm not. I know I'm not.
I don't know what you look like, but I think the best thing you can do is be happy. Be confindent. Have a personality... Just be yourself.
I'm sorry you feel this way about yourself, but someday soon a girl will notice you (if fact, someone probably already has!!)!
2006-11-05 17:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cutiexboots, no offence or anything but that was honestly the stupidest answer I've seen all night. Are you really that self absorbed?
Now on to my answer, you could try changing your image of your own self. Like when you look in the mirror and think you look ugly, lie to yourself and tell yourself you're hot. Attraction has a lot to do with personality. I have met good looking guys that looks totally ugly as soon as they open their mouth and say something stupid. I have met not so good looking guys that are confident and sweet and I would much rather talk to them then some dumb cute guy. Hope that helps :) Hold your head up high, you're awsome!
2006-11-06 01:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me let you in on the secret of tweens in jr high alot of people feel left out,ugly, goofy, etc. It was not the best time for me either and as a old person (30) I am in a great marriage,wonderful kid, nice house, etc. My life is not perfect and your never will be either but believe me the world is really nothing like jr high or high school it does get better. It is what you make of it. So make good grades go to college where you get to start fresh and you will be OK. Also, there probably is a girl that does notice you but most girls are way to shy to say anything.
2006-11-06 01:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysthebestanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there
Youk know i felt like you once. I'm not judging you or anything but i think that you lack self confidence. You probablty look around and see tthat every1 is dating or being noticed except you. THe thing is that, maybe your time hasnot come yet. I'm 20 years old and still waiting to get noticed.I walk through the halls of my university and still no-one mnotices me. EveryMrning i look in the mirror and wonder why i'm not being noticed. I always think that i'm ugly. I dont have that smile or those eyes or the body or whatever.You know, don't rush it. It is gonna take time. But dont worry, It will come eventually..Someday, we will get noticed.
2006-11-06 01:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Iriskent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things about your physical appearance can be changed... by working out, getting a haircut, cosmetic procedures, etc... but is that really important? I mean, do you want to be with someone that will be with you if you're good looking but if you weren't wouldn't even give you the time of day?
Plus, you're only in junior high! :) Just wait till you finish developing and finish growing, etc... And like other people said, confidence and attitude really is important. If you feel like you're good looking, or if you act like you don't care, other people won't care about it either. Find the good things that you like about yourself and feel proud and confident.
2006-11-06 01:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by FLOOD22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only Jr. high, you still have a lot of growing to do. Don't worry about your looks now. You need to grow into your body and feel comfortable with and the girls will follow. Also I think that most people don't feel comfortable at that age.
2006-11-06 01:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a photo, I'd give you my honest opinion... but look arent everything. I like nice, caring guys. And if you were ugly, I'm sure you would get noticed, but not in a good way.
2006-11-06 01:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry aboit too much. No girls ever noticed me in junior high. I started to hit the gym and make myself noticeable. If you want to get noticed you have to make the effort to change your image. It took me a while to change but its worth the results.
2006-11-06 01:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by pere4220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard to answer, because i can't see a picture of you, or the mirror you're looking into. Sorry.
2006-11-06 01:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might even be uglier, no offence or anything thats just the case with me because in photos and in the mirror i look really pretty but people say i look just average pretty. So yea, that or I'm in love with myself. "oh come here me, I LOVE ME!" lol
2006-11-06 01:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋