is a cheater trustworthy?

Question

hes cheated on me while i was pregnant can i trust him enough to get married/

Answer 1

If you can, he will cheat on you as well

Answer 2

Eventually I would say yes. Everyone makes a mistake now and then and although cheating is a huge mistake, it may have been the mistake that changed him. Put the marriage on hold for a while and explain to him why. You have to be certain of your feelings and most of all you have to be certain this is going to be the environment you want to raise your child in. Think about your child as well because like it or not, he or she is a part of this equation also. Tell him you have to see for yourself if you can build the trust back together between you before you can commit to a relationship of marriage and that you want to make sure that your child is not going to suffer. He may get mad or mouthy and tell you that he won't do it again but after he cools down and has time to think he will understand where you are coming from and if he doesn't then you have saved yourself and your child a lot of grief.

Answer 3

No. You need to either leave him or give the relationship a lot more time to see if you can get his trust back. It's easier & cheaper to leave a boyfriend than a husband. Don't jump into marriage, usually w/ guys it's once a cheater, always a cheater; but hopefully your guy will be the small percentage that makes that statement untrue.

Answer 4

Are you crazy or just insane girl??? HOly cow run away as far as you can & get rid of this LOSER!! Your only going to make you and your babies life pure HELL if you stay with this person.Once a cheater,always a cheater!! If you marry this guy it will be the biggest mistake you will ever make and you dont want to have to regret this the rest of your life when hes still cheating.

Answer 5

In my experience - once a cheater, always a cheater - but everyone deserves a second chance. If you have doubts at all about marrying him you should push the date back until you are completely sure. Divorce can be an ugly thing to go through.

Answer 6

Marriage , unlike companionship, is a bond between the two. While being fiancee usually means sharing great moments , marriage is meant to provide support to the partner when it is needed most.
From husband's point of view, he got to support you when you are in distress, when whole world is against you. That's marriage.
It is accepting the partner as it is, no changes required. It is sharing dark & unfortunate moments , not only joyful ones.
Everybody makes mistakes, but certain things like trust, honesty, support can't be corrected in every case unless the persons goes through complete mental / spiritual overhaul. Is he strong enough to be of this kind ?
If your relationship with him fulfills these conditions , go ahead otherwise this relationship can't be trusted & may put you in constant insecurity . Wish you all the best.

Answer 7

Probably not, and you don't want to get married if you have doubts.

Some cheaters will do it once and never again, but more likely he's cheated before you foudn out about that once, and he'll cheat again.

And cheating on you while you're pregnant with his (I assume) baby is like... cheating x 2! The lowest of the low.

Answer 8

Hell if I'd marry the jerk. Set your standards higher. Even if you are pregnant. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you truly want to live with that?

Answer 9

You must be kidding. You made one mistake by sleeping with him without protection. Now you're considering an even bigger one by marrying a known cheater? You shouldn't need to think twice. Dump him and find yourself a good man who will respect you and care for you and your new child.

Answer 10

No, because if he cheated on you while u were pregent . It's not the first or the last time .You might as well ; raise this child alone with the help from mom and make he's happy *** pay childsupport .

Answer 11

Once a cheater, always a cheater.