I cried last night.
I want to write a movie....
I am nuts sometimes
what shold I do to find peace ?
2006-11-05 16:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been wondering for more than 20 years now, Solitude sucks bad, even when I'm with family and friends, I can't seem to shake the feeling of loneliness, It has gotten to a point where the solitude is a manifestation that I can talk to, when I come home from work, it's like walking into a wall. If you can find something to bring you peace, please let me know, because the only release I can seem to find is death.
2006-11-05 16:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not nuts.
people are meant to have closeness. When it (or something else is lacking) you may FEEL nuts. You're not nuts.
16 years ago I was in a similar place.
I dropped out of collage($ problems)
lost my job
slept around looking for "love"
insomnia
drank to much to escape the sorrow
I was So lonely and hurting So much, I just wanted out.
I felt utterly alone, I could be in a crowd and still be utterly alone.
I wrote my suicide letter, had it all planed out
Had a dream that night...a feeling of love like I can not disc ride washed over me...Someone was there smiling saying It wasn't time yet......
As a child I had heared about God but after my Father died after a long illness I decided I wanted NOTHING to do with him at all.
I bought my self a Bible and tryed to read it with an open mind. NOT an easy task.
I read in the book of John about Jesus.
There is a story there about a woman who was brought to Jesus. She was caught sleeping around and according to the law she should die for it.
Jesus told off the guys who had brought her to him . If they wanted her dead, go ahead BUT the first one to start throwing rocks at her must be someone who has not ever done any wrong (sinned).
One by one those who dragged her out of bed to him left.
Jesus ,the only one who fit the citeria chose not to have her killed,
he forgave her...told her to stop sinning
I cry ed.
I said to God if you are real, and if you care about me I need help.
I started going to a church. I'll ignore all the hypocrites .I just need to find out more about God....
Most of the people were decent....some were very kind.
God met me there. Where I was at.
16 years later...
I know no matter what I'm not alone
God understands. He listens when I talk with him and he answers
I can trust Him even when I don't have a clue how things will work out.
Recently I've moved far from family and friends my Husband is away on business and I'm at home caring for our children trying to learn the Lang. of our new country.
Lonely is still there, but its power is gone.
Replaced by an indescribable peace that doesn't leave.
Blessings on your journey.
2006-11-05 17:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by godchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was suffering from loneliness, I started a journal...That way, you can write down all that you are experiencing and going through and believe it or not, it makes you feel better. You will feel as though a weight has been lifted from your shoulders. Later on, you can read about the turmoil you were experiencing and laugh it off. Try it.
2006-11-05 16:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,
We all feel sad and lonely sometimes, and we all have ways to cope with it. Go out with your family and friends, go dancing. Read some good books, try exercizing - it can be really fun and make you happy. Do anything that you like:)
I hope u feel better hun:)
2006-11-05 16:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of your head and in to action. You will find peace by serving others. Here's a great place to start:
www.volunteermatch.com
Hugs,
Ginger
2006-11-05 16:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Bible-it will give you peace and show you the only way to real happiness.Knowing you will spend an eternity in Heaven and nor Hell will give you peace.The Bible will show you the way!
2006-11-05 16:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write a movie about your lonely life.
2006-11-05 16:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join a club, volunteer with a charity......get out there and meet people....get a lava life account
2006-11-05 16:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fine...........Don't think you are nuts................Everyone gets lonely...............Start going to church and to some singles groups at the church...................Real peace comes from doing the right thing.........and going to church is going in the right direction...............................
2006-11-05 16:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pet. They love you nomatter what.
2006-11-05 16:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by w00t_in_my_pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋