She is always calling me with her problems with her boyfriend. They have the usual ( couples) fight, but I feel like thier cultural difference ( he is from Isreal/Jewish and she is American/Catholic (latina) plays a huge part in thier relationship. I feel (my opinon) that since we live in america we are more independent in our life style, while I feel like he thinks women should be restricted. She's been wanting to leave, but they are co-signer to thier home so she sort of can't financially leave cause the house if 1/2 hers.
2006-11-05 16:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Kitty Cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to give her advice. I've never been in a relationship, so I can't give her my own personal experience. Sometimes I feel like just listening to her problem is not enough.
2006-11-05 16:29:30 · update #1
Tell her to leave the home if she is unhappy, hire a lawyer or insolvency practitioner to divvy up the assets and equities, and if she can't take that advice, then not bother you with it again because this is basically all you can tell her. You can listen em pathetically, you can support her morally, but you cannot make her decisions for her. You sound like a great friend for her to have and hopefully this will help you and her to keep your friendship without causing waves. If you give her the wrong advice she will always have that on her mind. Besides, a relationship like she is in with two different types of religion is doomed anyway. While I don't mean this harshly or to down any form of religion, I just mean that it is unfair of either to ask either to give up on their beliefs knowing that he or she will eventually be very unhappy with the decision they made. There are instances where this type of relationship has worked but there are more that have failed by far. Good luck and hope this helps.
2006-11-05 16:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the two of them should be solving thier own differences and conflict ,no matter how good of a friend you are to them(her). it's a time tested fact, trust me.
2006-11-06 00:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she can still leave. she can find a job and find a place of her own. they need to leave each other and stop wasting time with one another.
2006-11-06 00:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with him get her to videotape it then when they go to court he"ll be screwed,u'll lose a friend but she"ll gain a house case closed
2006-11-06 00:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by DoingItRight! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
advice her to avoid him
2006-11-06 00:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt your problem. she got herself into this, why should you get her out of it?
2006-11-06 00:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Fresh and in the flesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋