put on my hijab and told him we couldnt see each other any more, but we could talk about marriage later. he told me that he would never marry me unless i took off my hijab. he had also hit me and said very degrading things to me that week. so i left him and told him i never wanted to see him again. 2 months later i found out i was pregnant. b/ he was not a true Muslim and i knew he did not want to get married, i decided we should place the baby for adoption. we found a wonderful Muslim family who could not have children and they are raising him. but it is an Islamic adoption so we still see them. i want to get married soon and i'm wondering if you knew a girl who u liked and was a good Muslimah in my position... would you marry her?
i wont had my son and put the burden of my mistake on him. and i won't spend my life repenting to another human. i repent only to Allah. there is no need for politeness i only want to know what to expect.
salam
this is what i was asking.. sorry
2006-11-05 16:00:31 · 8 answers · asked by Living MyTruth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sure, I would marry a brave Muslimah of course with hijab. Looks like you're deeply hurt, don't you have any mosques or Islamic center in your area so that you get some help and advise. Peace!
2006-11-05 16:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Muslim 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Assalamoalakum sister,
I don't see any reason why any good Muslim man wouldn't marry you. You sound like a very good sister. I hope Allah works this out for you, and I truly wish I had the answer, but I don't. I just wanted to let you know that I hope the best for you, and that Allah can help you in finding a husband who is a true Muslim man (they are out there), and I know there are Muslim men out there who would be happy to marry a woman who has had a child. I hope, Insha Allah, that you are able to work out a plan that will allow for both, Insha Allah. For you to be able to see your child on a regular basis, and for you to also marry a good Muslim. May Allah give you this, sister. Salam.
2006-11-06 02:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Safiyah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all covering of face is not an obligatory thing in ISLAM. Covering a face is totally a cultural thing and its not related to religion. Islam only asked woman to cover her body very well and completely so that men cant see their body curves. As women’s body curves ( breast and butts are also very attractive).
2nd what u did was rite thing as he shouldnt have rite to insult u that way.
3rd honestly that girl is a gift of God (Allah) to any man. and if anybody is reluctant to accept that girl he is very idiot. i think she will be a great wife.
4th BUT BUT unfortunately u will not find any guy in muslims world ( i think not even a single guy) to mary that girl just for the purpose of having a good wife. and to please God. (Allah)
5th and now final answer to ur question yes for sure short i would have mary her at any cost. as i have told u that girl is a gift of God. and one cant find this Precious girl very easily. very hard to find
bye hope i have answer ur question in better way.
2006-11-06 09:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would respect you but probably not marry you, only due to religious differences.
2006-11-06 00:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-11-06 00:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by billy b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but ... why islam? isn't that the religion that gives the least rights to women?
anyway, if i were a man i would think it would be nice to find a partner who was committed to their religion, no matter what.
2006-11-06 00:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 7⤋
Sorry if I don't answer it, I may have got lost. Put your faith in Jesus Christ. Later
2006-11-06 00:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by mikegwelch 2 · 3⤊ 6⤋
dunno
2006-11-06 00:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by DIrtycircus 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋