has anybody ever found that perfect someone but been to scard to really talk to them i mean u guys are friends but when you really just want to talk to them its sometimes akward well that is mee i am the akward girl when it comes to him but for some reason that doesnt matter is it that we must not go together well or is it somthing else like we just havent had the chance to get to know eachother well enough? am in denial becuase were *just friends* and pushing for what is not there? HELP!
2006-11-05 15:48:06 · 6 answers · asked by crystaltears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
While I don't believe that there is only one person for each of us, I will take a stab at this. What you first have to do is to focus the question on yourself. In other words, instead of asking what the other person is thinking or feeling, ask yourself what is keeping you from going after what you want. When you have the answer to that, you will know what to do.
2006-11-05 15:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Al 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could be the one for u. I am friends with a guy that I really really like and we have been friends for over 11 year. I think he still likes me but I am not sure I am to scared to tell him because I am not sure if he still likes me and I don't wanna make our friendship awkard If i tell him. Just watch for signs that he is interested in you.
2006-11-05 23:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't in denial, you're afraid he'll tell you something you don't want to hear, like: you'll always just be friends!Okay, that's really BAD. You're really wanting to take it one more step, and he takes your breath away(old phrase for can't talk 'cause wow he's cute!). Awkard girl-guys can tell you're nervous, that's pretty much okay with us, its flattering as can be. Take it slow, talk a little and watch his reaction-not yours. When you get ready to tell him what you are thinking, you be ready.
2006-11-06 00:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by relaxed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk much, how do you know that he is that perfect someone? You need to get up the confidence and start talking, get to know this guy.
2006-11-05 23:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the problem a couple of years ago.. i put it all on the line and told her.. and surprisingly she felt the same way about me. we're now in love and wnat to spend the rest of our lives together.. if you really care about him.. just tell him exactly how you feel. if you cant communicate then you shoudlnt be in a relationship. its worth it .. trust me
2006-11-05 23:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Eric T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be just friends. But your question sounds more than that.
2006-11-05 23:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋