do you think its wrong for me to hang out with guys and talk to them on the phone when i have a boyfriend . my boyfriend of over a year doesnt want me to . and i tell him that he doesnt trust me but he said its not that . he doesnt know what it is . i hate this because i grew up with all boys . and ive always gotten along with them better . let me know your oppinion.
2006-11-05 15:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by MLPT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might be feeling insecure because you're going to your guys for a good time instead of him. Make sure you spend enough time with your boyfriend to make him feel more special than just one of your friends. But I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with hanging out with the other guys once in a while as long as you aren't doing anything you shouldn't be doing. They are your friends, and you have a right to spend time with them. Maybe next time you hang out with the guys, you should ask your boyfriend to come along.
2006-11-05 15:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_lil_cowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really up to you there is nothing wrong with talking to buys, maybe your boyfriends sees you flirting some times and might be insecure about it, its really normal for him to get jealous so if you love your boyfriend give it some thought and respect what he wishes for a while, but then explain to him you are not going to cheat on him, and that this guys you are hanging out with are friends, if you can then why not acquaint them with one another so that this guys and your boyfren can be good friends.and truly ask him what did he mean by its not that?
2006-11-05 23:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you that you don't have female friends? If you don't trust/like women it means that you don't like yourself.
I don't think it is cool for you to hang out and talk to guys at all. You are in a relationship.
2006-11-05 23:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lashenova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, would you like it if he was talking to other girls on the phine and going out with them? I think that you should respect his wishes if you want to be with him. I mean, it is kind of like a slap in the face to see your girlfriend hanging out with other guys. I agree with him...its not necassarily about trust. It's just not right. If you and him got married one day would you think that you could still think that it should be okay for you to hang out with other guys? It's not fair to him.
2006-11-05 23:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really trusts you this will not bother him, if it does it will create big problems if you stay with him. But be careful it is really important to have girlfriends to because they can give you incite that guys can't. Also most guys have hidden intentions when they are trying to be "friends"
2006-11-05 23:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Clrcut27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite gender. Your boyfriend sounds insecure.
2006-11-05 23:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Michael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guess you guys are in grade school or something? No guy is really gonna like you talking to other guys like that, kind of like you probably wouldnt like it that he talks to his old gf and other girls. Once you are in a relationship, then you gotta trust, which means gritting your teeth and putting up with it.
2006-11-05 23:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to get a grip or hit the road.
2006-11-05 23:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by dww32720 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH KICKIN IT WITH BOYS..I LIKE TALKING TO BOYS AND HANGING OUT WITH BOYS AND I HAVE A BOYFRIEND...JUST DONT GIVE THE OTHER GUYS MOE ATTENTION THAN YOU GIVE YOUR MAN
2006-11-05 23:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by goodgirl_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your boyfriend has a problem
2006-11-05 23:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋