i want your honest opinion b/ i'm trying to get an idea of what to expect. there is no need for politeness.
i converted to Islam a few yrs ago. at the time i was dating a man who was "muslim." the day i converted i put on my hijab and told him we couldnt see each other any more the way we had, but we could talk about marriage later. he told me that he would never marry me unless i took off my hijab. he had also hit me and said very degrading things to me that week. so i left him and told him i never wanted to see him again. two months later i found out i was pregnant. b/ he was not a true Muslim and i knew he did not want to get married, i decided we should place the baby for adoption. he agreed and we found a wonderful Muslim family who could not have children and they are raising him. but it is an Islamic adoption so we still see them and they are very kind and helpful to us. i want to get married soon and i'm wondering if you knew a girl who u liked and was a good Muslimah...
2006-11-05 15:40:38 · 6 answers · asked by Living MyTruth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The a various type of people out there. In my opinion, your muslim boyfriend is not a good person, he refused to responsible of what he did before and also want you to took off your hijab. I am worried if you get married with him soon, he will act violently to you. So, my advice is, just leave him.At the same time, be thankful to Allah as He shows you the true way of life. Pray to God hopefully you get the nice and kind husband soon..
2006-11-05 16:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by (^___^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get you, you said you put the hijab, that means you are female, then in the end you ask about another muslimah. This does not make sense.
Anyways, i must appreciate that even though you are a revert, you have entered islam wholeheartedly and understand the necessity of hijab which even your ex (a born muslim) could not understand.
May ALLAH help you in finding a suitable husband for you. But where are you from?
2006-11-05 15:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by flameslivewire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not consider for marriage a woman who was "familiar" with men due to fornication (zina), because I do not think it would produce an atmosphere conducive to my idea of a good marriage.
When women "give themselves" to men without marriage, it shows they do not value themselves. When a woman values herself, then I will value her too.
You may find a man who cares nothing about what happened in the past, but, of course, you will have to make sure that you are both able to accept each other's history.
If you are a North American citizen, I recommend that you seek for marriage only a North American citizen. The fact of marrying for citizenship has caused serious problems for the women who were duped.
2006-11-05 15:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by HF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering your question here too because no one has given you a proper answer.
You have been deeply hurt and you must let time will heal that wound Inshallah.
May Allah bless you and keep you happy and give you peace of mind. Ameen.
2006-11-08 22:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did. I married her.
I am not sure about the question though.
2006-11-06 02:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by WEBBADGER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.domini.org/lam
http:answerin_islam.org/Silas/wife-beating.htm
2006-11-08 05:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by michele_miss2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋