WHY is it sooooooooo hard to find a good,honest,loyal man?????I am smart,pretty,funny,and LOVE sex! The problem??? Can't find a decent man...ANYWHERE! I get the liars,cheaters,abusers...the list goes on and on!Where are all the good guys and does anybody want true love anymore??
2006-11-05 14:50:50 · 14 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of woman say this all the time, yet they end up with wrong kind of men all the time. I don't think it's a coincidence.
Basically here's the deal, and I'm basing this on what I have learned from my 25 years on earth. The nice decent guy is not noticed. Yeah, nice guys finish last a lot of times. It sucks but it's the truth and the truth hurts.
Alot of woman see the nice guy out of the corner of their eye, he's going about his business, working his 9 to 5, trying to be a productive member of society, but he tends to blend in so he doesn't get noticed, so again and again women like you fall for the *******. It's a vicious cycle. Good luck, though.
2006-11-05 14:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are still some good guys around. Wat are u looking for?? Friendship or love. Let fate do it's job while u look around. Dis kind of things can't be rush. If u destiny is up, ur white horse prince will appear. Remember to open ur eyes and see wats inside a man rather than wats on the exterior......
FYI, I've been looking for a mate for a long long time but one day, my wife just appear out of nowhere. 6 months later, we got married and have been faithfully together for the past 5 years.....
2006-11-05 23:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by turbozen7218 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you present your self, if you present your slef as being easy then you will get a different croud lingering by you. If you present your self as a push over then a different croud will be lingering, but the kind that wont view you as strong and independant and will just want to use you. Present your self as strong and confidant, and I wouldnt be spreading the word that you "LOVE sex!" because that does make you seem a bit easy. Just remember to be confidant in how you present your self and the right guy will come along.
2006-11-05 23:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that these men are hard to find it's that there are so few of us like that. Me and my girlfriend met online in a chat room and we have been together now for over a year (living in the same house). So don't give up keep trying, you will find that one special person.
2006-11-05 22:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by krzycarcwby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the good guys are saying, Where can I find a fairly smart, pretty, funny woman who doesn't consider anything remotely sexual as being dirty. I guess we have been waiting at the harbor for our ship to come in and your at the airport. Go figure.
2006-11-05 22:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ur lookin at the wrong type of guys, keep looking n don't jus jump into bed with them, make em wait, you will soon find out if they are decent or not
2006-11-05 22:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by Duffsta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good guy, and yes I want true love. I can't seem to find it ether, but waiting patiently. I know she's out there!!!!
2006-11-05 22:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im honest and i havent been able to find girls that want me that way all teh girls dat i could care less bout all like love me off but the ones i actually care bout dont feel the same
2006-11-05 22:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by royals21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really nice woman... maybe you need to start looking in other places.
2006-11-05 22:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by cribmaster_mn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? i am the a very loyal man that nothing but the upmost respect for women.
2006-11-05 22:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋