your drunk but he isnt and he knows your drunk and he ask you do you want some more. So your driving around and end up at a park and he starts undressing you. you say stop numerous times he continues, so you scratch up his neck because it hurts. The whole time you think he just wants to talk thats why you get in the car with the old friend. Is it your fault because you got in the car drunk. ( you didnt think it would go down in the car, that just seem unqustionable)
2006-11-05 14:39:19 · 56 answers · asked by nita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is considered sexual battery if there was intercourse., I not then it would be sexual assault. The moment you said no, the law was broken.
Now to be honest with you, you should have not put yourself in that situation. By this I don't mean that its your fault, just that this is very unfortunate and horrible.
2006-11-05 14:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by ttepinzon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is considered rape in my book. NO it is not your fault. He knew you were drunk and he took advantage of you. If I was drunk and I knew a guy really good I probably would get un the car with him, but if he crossed that line I would let him know that he has passed it. I would do just like you i would say stop and then i would hit him in his face.
2006-11-05 14:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rape. You put yourself in a very bad situation with a bad man who took advantage of you. A decent guy wouldn't have done that. Report him while the scratches are still fresh on his neck. Just because you are drunk does not give men the right to force themselves on you.
2006-11-05 14:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, when u are drunk, u dont know what is going on. U should have used ur instincts and u should have never went with this guy. I think it is rape unless u didnt report it and then he might have gotten what he wanted. Never go with anyone when u are drunk especially a guy that u dontknow what he is capable of
2006-11-05 14:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to accept full responsibilty for your actions. You could have evaded the situation completely had you done a few things differently, but as far as him raping you, thats not completely your fault. Its both of your faults I would say. Try using a ballsqueeze technique next time, something like that may decrease his sex drive very quickly next time.
2006-11-05 14:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said no...drunk or not...No is No and it is "date rape". It is not your fault...call the rape crisis or hot line in your community. Talk to them...get some help. Don't let this play around in your mind with out help. Best wishes....
2006-11-05 14:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rape, Normal human beings know the answer to stop. Going on is rape. I don't care how drunk you were or if you had sex with him before at another time. No is no. Drop a dime on his butt.
2006-11-05 14:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by lumberman57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. No offense on you though. You said no, which under any circumstances means NO. He definitely took advantage of the situation with you being drunk. You weren't at fault either. He had many signs telling him to stop and he didn't.
2006-11-05 14:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Curly Q Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Its not your fault.
There are laws: If you are drunk and you still said yes, its still rape. But you said stop so thats even more to say that its rape. call the police.
2006-11-05 14:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you said no, it's rape. Press charges and make sure you follow through with it. The only this scum-bag is going to quit doing this kind of thing is if you put him away for a long time.
2006-11-05 14:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is rape. You said no AND he took advantage of you when you were drunk. You should report him to the police as soon as possible.
2006-11-05 14:42:15 · answer #11 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋