Howcome most guys?

Question

I meet never want a realationship? I am nice and caring ( I think) and very respectful to others. I am on the sensitive side but that's just me. ANyway, when I ask for their number or somehow we trade numbers, that's all. I am calling them but they are not returning most of my calls. I am very naive and never had a serious relationship. Any advice?

do they think i'm desperate or something?

or am I barking up the wrong trees?

Answer 1

if these guys whose numbers you are getting are from bars, then i think you should stop doing that. theyre only there first of all for a one nighter. so if you do find a guy that calls you back, ull probably end up broken hearted, which isnt good. you need to wait and go other places to find a guy who fits your personality. you cant be too desperate. because i guy doesnt always want to be wrapped up in a relationship. they want room to breathe. not something drooling about them 24/7. i think that if you act more self reliant, ull find more guys.

Answer 2

You are in such a big hurry it scares them off! Think about it. If someone chases you, you feel like running. Few people will even stop and ask for directions first.

First, sit down and make yourself a list of the good qualities you want in a guy. Then don't give out your number or anything else to just any guy. You need to do the choosing, even if there aren't seemingly many to choose from. The more you take your time and choose, the more they will respect you and see that you won't go with just anybody. The person who will not settle for anything but the best very often gets it!

Answer 3

Let them be the man by letting them call you. By calling them, you're looking a bit on the needy side.

Also, initiating one call and leaving a message is okay. A leaving a second message is also okay (hopefully not within minutes of each other). A thrid is stalking.

Relationships take time, let chemestry build. If a guy doesn't call you back, move on. Cause he would if you didn't call him back.

In all honesty you're trying to hard, when you have a guy that is trying to hard with you, you'll understand.

Answer 4

Stop being naive and make them call you don't go begging after them Also don'r be shy and take it as a game If you win you the guy if you loose you loose nothing well depends don't give a guy what he wants right away ok well take care bye

Answer 5

It's OK to wonder why.I believe it's because most men want sex but not a relationship,(and women too)but there are ones out there that do so you need to keep looking.If you haven't notice the dating world is beginning to change,and it's for the worst.More and more people out here just don't care anymore about the other person,just themselves in my opinion.

Answer 6

perhaps there are many reasons, maybe some don't think you're attractive, maybe some think you're desperate, or maybe the guys are just being kinda flaky. My advice would be just keep trying, nothing I think really could tell you, without knowing you and how you act or how your style is, is just keep trying, don't give up

Answer 7

The problem is that you are asking the numbers of the wrong guys.

Answer 8

Wrong Trees... and there's a lot of them... Don't worry, though, you'll find the right guy one day... and probably when you're not even looking.

Answer 9

don't be too desperate--guys will come naturally when you first have confidence in yourself (at least SHOW it, whether you feel it or not) you can do it :)

Answer 10

Ok......chill. Thats ALL you need to do. DON'T chase them, let them chase you. Don't seem desperate, high-maintence, or dramatic......
Good Luck! ;-)