I just got out of a 4 year relationship, becuase i met this girl that i went to high school with, we met in the grocery store and we met for coffee to go over old times.... We really liked each other in school but never did date, now were dating and madly in love, i cant stand her not being around, and i still get that tingling feeling in my chest when i am about to see her or spend time with her or just talk on the phone..... You know thw feeling i am talking about, the one you got in JR. High school when you asked that girl to dance... My family loves her, I love her and her family really loves me too, we have only been back together for 6 months and she is truly my soulmate, do you think it is too early to pop the question...... I am at the point in my life where i am still young but i want to settle down and start a family, i am finacially stable enough to do so. I want to be the perfect family like you see on tv. Always happy and the coolest dad on earth, Any Advice out there?????
2006-11-05 14:32:10 · 20 answers · asked by nsguy_2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like love to me........there's no set time to pop the question, if it feels right to it.......Just one word of warning.....we all want perfect marriages, perfect kids, but it doesn't always work out that way........just by prepared for the lows as well as the highs.....if you work as a team you'll suceed.
2006-11-05 14:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jane E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have probably heard that if something sounds too good to be true then it probably is....well, that is not always the way it is and I hope it is not but maybe you should consider giving it a little more time. I know that they two of you have known each other for some time but what is the rush? Make sure it is what you both want. If it is true love you will still be in love 6 months or a year from now. Best of luck to you and your love.
2006-11-05 22:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u? if u r 16, then its just ur hormone talking. but if u are matured enough, then go for it.
i read somewhere in magazine saying that a man will know who his soulmate is when he look at her. at that time, all he think is about commitment. u have all the symptoms dude. its definitely love. u are a textbook example!
i'm glad there's still a guy out there thinking about marriage and fatherhood. u are really a rare species! she's really lucky to have u.
anyway, i wish u the best. dont wait to long to pop the question. or u will be the case like in micheal learns to rock song "25 minutes too late"
2006-11-05 22:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by miza n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definately in love. Depends how young you are. Sometimes first loves don't turn out to be your true soulmate - the number of songs writen about teenage / young love being painful etc attest to that fact.
If you've considered all the options and you know she feels the same then go for it, ask her.
Best of luck - and if she accepts I wish you both a very long and happy married life together, and I hope you get to be all the things you want to be (loving husband and father etc.)
2006-11-06 01:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is great. As you know her from school, so your feelings are more solid.
As families are nice and the relation between them is good too, so there is no reason to not going ahead with a great relationship and finally to a great family.
Just check if there is a history of bursting emotions that fade soon.
If in either side the feelings are solid, just go ahead.
All the best,
Jose Damaso Ramon
2006-11-05 23:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she adores you too what are you waiting for?
I got engaged at 6 months and was married 6 months later. 4 years later - children.
Enjoy loving each other - you have something very special, but do not start a family yet.
Isabelle.
2006-11-06 04:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Isabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy dear.U are among the rare people on earth who find their true love.Having ur soulmate by ur side is something magic,u no that she/he is here.u'll never find someone like her trust me.A soulmate is like part of u,someone u really need to live with.Everynight,before closing ur eyes for a nice sleep, there is her name on ur lips.In morning when u wake up,she is the first thing ur eyes wanna see, ur hands wanna touch.What u r really feeling is true n pure love.
this girl is the right one for u.
I know exactly what u r feeling dear, I am in same situation like u.N am proud of it, because actually too much people take love for granted.
I know that for u, this gal is ur main reason of living, the reason God put u on earth.
Trust ur love. Ur crazy for sure, but ur crazy in love and this is reali wonderful...
Take care
2006-11-06 01:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by SHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months are still a few time. Try to know her deeply better for remenber she could be the woman who you are to stay with till death do you apart. So talk it over and plan bout your future easily.
And take advice from old people cause they have more experience bout these themes.
Well, by for now. I hope best.
2006-11-05 23:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Alrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sweet. it is not often in a relationship where the in laws actually like you, so if they do, your all set. you sound very much in love
so wishing you years of love and laughter
and living happily ever after!
2006-11-06 01:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! The sooner the better if you care about one another so much. Good luck... and, should the occasion arise, have a great wedding! =)
2006-11-06 03:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋