Alright, there was a girl that I was trying to get together with, she canceled 2x on me in the same weekend for different reasons. Should I give her a 3rd chance or just move on?
2006-11-05 14:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, there is a girl I was trying to get together with the first time she canceled because of a family function that she forgot about and the second time she canceled because she was sick due to the family function ... Which was her excuse.
She canceled 2x on me in the same weekend and I set this up with 2-3 days advanced notice.
Should I give her a 3rd chance?
2006-11-05 14:17:34 · update #1
If its Jessica Simpson, yes. If it's not, move on to Jessica Simpson.
2006-11-05 14:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by cfish_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe she's trying to give you the hint that she doesn't want to go out. she may have said yes before but now regrets sayin it. or she could be really freaking out now because she really couldn't go and is worried that you're not gonna give her another chance. I'd say that you need to tell her that if she feels uncomfortable with the idea of going out with you, you're okay with that. don't get mad at her or anything just try to be understanding. and then tell her that if she DOES want to go out with you, to call you when she has an opportunity to go out. this way, you give her her space, sound understanding (being the nice guy, not pushy), and you don't set yourself up to be disappointed again.
2006-11-05 22:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the same weekend??? different excuse- or reason- one more chance - then 3 strikes she is out!! D
2006-11-05 22:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noway. You can so do better than that. Of course unless her reasons were super legit..and maybe if she was the one that brought up a third try, not you.
2006-11-05 22:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by WhitneyR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give it one more chance, and make sure this time there is plenty of notice ahead of time. After that, forget it.
2006-11-05 22:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by nowayman72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If she was interested she wouldn't cancel twice.
2006-11-05 22:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately not, just take me out instead ;)
J/K, i guess it depends on the reasons, do the reasons sound kind of strange like maybe shes just making excuses?
2006-11-05 22:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♣Kellina♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She doesn't sound interested enough.
2006-11-05 22:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a week and then try.
2006-11-05 22:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by onedot.darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on but wut wuz her reasons??
2006-11-05 22:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by && hOw dO i sAy i lUv u ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋