If you like a guy that practically lives like 5 states away from you and you love him. Is that wrong? Is it wrong to want to hold him? I've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 weeks. So, is it wrong to love him more then your friends or family? He's number 2 on my priorites list. My first one is God, of course, so should I break up with him? My friends say it's risky to be in a relationship like that cause you can't see him. So, what do I do?
2006-11-05 14:09:04 · 22 answers · asked by HikariTaiyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't meet him on the internet. I met him at Silver Dollar City while I was with my youth group. They liked him. I guess I don't love him LOVE him. But I do like him alot.
2006-11-05 14:17:45 · update #1
If someone could help me with this relationship IM me at sun_ninja_and_shino_lover
My sister picked it out.
2006-11-05 14:20:55 · update #2
It's hardly a relationship after only 2 weeks ... but who knows where it might lead???
For now just take things slowly and as they come ... if it was meant to be ... then there will be signs of better and closer things
Good Luck :)
2006-11-05 14:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ruthie Baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is NOT wrong ........... the distance will simply make your love stronger it is not wrong to love some one that is far aaway I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months already and we miss each other alot we would b together in 2 months if everything goes according to plans just make sure you keep him happy don't tell him not to do things cuz d more you tell him not to do something the more he will do it.. It is not wrong true love comes in weird packages and the harder d relationship the stronger the love this is d perfect oppurtunity to show your love to him and let him know how much you are willing to do for him. If you are unsure than well see how it goes and than decide later when more time passes by .... well whatever your choice is good luck and I wish you the very best .... bye
2006-11-05 22:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lil angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, no. When you meet someone for the first time and they are really great it feels like they are everything to you. Maybe after a while your feelings will fade and you will become more grounded. But the feelings could stay the same and you guys will have to find a way to be together or make it work out. Looking back I have felt that way about a couple of people, but after getting to know them longer I wished that I would not have put them before my family and friends. Sounds like you need to get to know him more before you jump the gun.
2006-11-05 22:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Ruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear that you are in love with the IDEA of having a long-distance romance more than you are in love with him. A lot of people find long distance romances more appealing since there is all the mystery and none of the reality. Generally long-distance romances last until the distance is eliminated and then most time people find that the other person is not what they were portrayed to be.
2006-11-05 22:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends on what base do you put your relationship on. Long distance relationship rarely works because most people cannot be at least a little bit physical. If you can't see it, you can't believe it. But for a small number of people, they can maintain a relationship only over a telephone, email, chat, webcam, etc, or even only as penpals.
Its totally up to you. It's more difficult to maintain LDR, but if you can, you're good.
2006-11-05 22:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is 5 states away! Do u know what he is doing. U love him after two weeks? That is not love, that is lust. how old are u and u can find someone in your hometown to be with. It is not that hard. It isnt not wrong to love someone so far away but u are making urself seem like he is the only one u can have when he is not.
2006-11-05 22:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by good4u06@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's not wrong to love someone that lives a few states away but it's not a good idea. You don't wanna pour your emotions into a relationship that's doomed (unless you two see each all the time).
2006-11-05 22:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. Put your family and pals ahead of God as well. Don't be simple-minded. Long distance is worthless, You love him after 2 weeks? Thats pathetic. Grow up.
2006-11-05 22:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong, but just be careful. I had a long distance relationship once and it was heart breaking because we could never be together. Sometimes I still wonder.."what if"
2006-11-05 22:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 states away- that is the pits= if you both have a good thing going on and are trustworthy, patient and faithful= it should be ok- for how long no telling- it could get old after while- esp if someone else comes along that catches your eye- D
2006-11-05 22:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋