I've known this guy for 2 years, a friend of my friend. We've always talked on messenger, but never got together. Recently we went out, and the date was horrible. He kept complementing me and talked a bunch of nonsense. It was sweet at first, then after the complements got annoying. It was so bad, that when he got up to go to the bathroom, that the lady with her family sitting beside us at dinner turned to me and asked if I could go home now, and turned to her year old son and told him I think this lady would rather spend the night wtih you. I told our mutal friend about this adventurous night, and he said he must have been really nervous, and I can't base it on my first experience out wtih him. what should I do? take the risk of another date? Oh ya, to top it all off at the end of the night he gave me a handshake, we're not even teenagers anymore, a simple goodbye would have been fine....
2006-11-05 14:03:38 · 25 answers · asked by sweet_ee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't seen anything unusual? The handshake thing is just being critical. The only reason I believe it was a bad date, is that the other lady mentioned something. So that's your 2, against his 1. I would say either you have 2 critical and rude women or 1 nervous guy. Next time, date a guy who doesn't compliment you and treats you like crap. Some lady will probably turn around and say he's sexy or something.
Don't be mean. It's just that you don't like him. If a woman likes a guy, he can do anything and she would still like him(within reason). If he was hot and attractive, I don't think you would care about a handshake or any of it.
2006-11-05 14:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he can never get better, right? Well, maybe not. You should definitely give him another chance because a lot of people are nervous on their first dates. Just make sure you let him know that at first, you were very flattered with the compliments, but then he went a little overboard. I'm sure he'd understand, if he's a sweet and respecting guy. And maybe you could help him loosen up a little by asking him questions about himself, or bring up something you've talked about and had a laugh over or just a good time discussing. He'll probably get drawn into the conversation. If not, just laugh about the silence or something aruond you because laughing actually helps people free themselves of their nervousness.
2006-11-05 14:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on another date, but make it as informal as possible, just a movie or lunch or something. We guys get very nervous, so I'd give him the benefit of the doubt, although the handshake was pretty lame. If he acts the same, yeah, just politely say bye and resist future dates.
2006-11-05 14:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Handshake? Seriously? Well ok lets think rational, call him againa and c if he acts that way on the phone if he does then it may not work out. If not give him another shot being on the phone and in person are two totally different things
2006-11-05 14:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 07:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him a chance, but tell him he doesn't have to be so formal. If you've already known each other for 2 years, he shouldn't have to put up a "good face." Tell him you hoped that you two were close enough that you could be at ease with each other. Most important, follow through, if you act comfortable, and not all stiff, chances are he'll lighten up too.
2006-11-05 14:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if your idea of the date from hell is a guy who compliments you and refrains from date-raping you after dinner, then I'd venture to say you haven't been out on many dates. He obviously likes and respects you. If you like him, go out again. If you don't want to date him, then don't. What's the dilemma?
2006-11-05 14:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Emm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really likes you, what are you looking for in a guy? If your like most girls you'll need something more but if not go out with him.... other wise it could become a bigger problem if you don't end it now.... Besides, you like the other guy don't you?
2006-11-05 14:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Joey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends. He is trying way to hard for some reason. I would stear away from him if possible. He seems like he has some issues and will probly turn out to be a wierdo. Don't do it.
2006-11-05 14:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by DHWJulie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol a handshake. That's nothing, i dated an alcoholic pill-popper once. She made Courtney Love look like the virgin mary.
2006-11-05 14:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋