My girlfriend does talk to me hardly at all during lunch, and when she goes somewhere she doesnt really want me to go w/ her, and my friend is going through some stuff and i am confused cause my mom says dumb my gf. Can anyone give me some advice?
2006-11-05 13:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by cocofarwell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't judge on who you hang out with more, but judge on who you like better. It's no use sticking around with your girlfriend if she constantly ditches you, but if you like her better, you'd just be hurting your friend and yourself. However, it's a different story if you like your friend better. Just dump your girlfriend because you deserve to be treated better. Just don't lead both on and see who likes you better because it should matter more on your feelings, or else you'd end up hurting more than yourself. (Sorry, not trying to repeat myself, but it's better if only one person feels down than when 3 people feel bad)
2006-11-05 14:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have outgrown the "But my mommy says so, so I should do it, cause mommy's always right" thing. Think for yourself. Is your gf worth it to you? Do you still love her? Does your feelings for her still the same, or has it changed? If you feel that you don't love her that much anymore, tell her that, so that you both can move on. Time can change people and their feelings for others. I'm not saying that there are no couples who are married to each other for more than 50 years, and the love is still strong. But life is not always lucky for everybody. If you feel attracted to another person, maybe your feelings HAVE changed, or maybe it's just a normal attraction. Either way, think carefully of what you're feeling, before acting. Good luck!
2006-11-05 22:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how you feel about them, but it sounds like your gf might be cheating on you since she never wants you to go any were with her but just make sure that if your gonna get with your Friend to break up with your gf first
2006-11-05 22:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by 12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gf isn't meeting your expectations then why have her as a gf?
There must be some payoff for you to continue having her as a gf.
Figure it out.
2006-11-05 22:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was going with some one that didn't talk to me i would break up with them because that is not a real relation ship.if you like your friend more that your girl go with her because you guys might work it out better and you guys know more about each other.
2006-11-05 22:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by keirsten j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOUR MOMS RIGHT DUMP THE GIRLFRIEND SHE SOUND LIKES SEE MAYBE HAS ANOTHER BOYFRIEND SORRY I DON,T WANT TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS BUT ITS TRUE
2006-11-05 22:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋