I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months. Everything has been goin great but then about 2 weeks ago it seems like he dosent want to hang out anymore. All my friends say to just dump him but i still got some feelings for him. The only time he does want to hang out is when my friends go over and get him to, Thier are times when I want to brake up with him then other times I dont want to. When we do hang out he acts like everything is all fine. Should I brake up with him, or give him another chance?
2006-11-05 13:21:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-05 13:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only give me so many chances before you chances turn into a joke, you have to sit him down and ask him what's going on. You have to get to the bottom of whatever is going on. You have to ask him what is going on with a open mind, don't go in asking him questions ask him like a friend. If he doesn't give you the answers you want say it's time for a break and you need space. Say things aren't working and you need space. Tell him to maybe in a week call you so you can think. If you want to dumb him you have to be okay with what will happen.
Good Luck
2006-11-05 21:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by nathan920ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. This sounds like a problem that i faced last year. It really didn't work out well, either. But anyway, I was in the 9th grade, and he wasn't in my class. And we decided to go out. We went out for 2 months, and then it started to go down, because my bect friend, Carley started to hang out with me. I asked him if he liked her and he said no. But he was still being a butthole, if you know what i mean. And anyway, I got his best friend to break up with him for me. He said he was wanting to do different things. So the next year we tried it (this year). I just plain out didn't like him, and i moved on and i have someone better.
So! in conclusion.. ask him if he is getting tired of going out with you..questions like that... and if he doesnt like you...move on. i'm sure there are other guys you'd like to give a try..right?
2006-11-05 21:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Itsallaboutmehunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How hard to find a right boy friend..you have paid the price now why are you not collecting the merchandise you already bought.You don't have to break up..give him a new look by exchanging a color or fashion.You will like him more than ever.Change his hair fashion,dress,shoes and styles..That's your new Boy friend? am I right..
2006-11-05 21:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he busy, cause some people cant spend every waking minute making someone else happy, even when ur married it just doesnt happen. Do u have fun when he does come around if u can say no then lose him.
2006-11-05 21:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first. Ask him what's up. It could be something simple, like he didn't know it's bothering you, or it could be something serious. Maybe he's having family problems and just isn't in the mood. Give him a chance to explain himself first, then make your decision.
2006-11-05 21:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brake you with him I just broke up with my gf tonight and it will sting for a while who really knows how long but you will be better off good luck
2006-11-05 21:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by oo10andahalf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a good relationship, be independent he knows that you care for him ,and he is using you. let him come to you and then you will see if he care, If he does'nt come to you,this means you have feelings for him, but he does'nt have for you
move on, another boyfriend will treat you the way you need to be treated and loved
2006-11-05 21:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by queenbefree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you don't know how to spell the word "break" correctly, I'd say you were too young to have a boyfriend anyway.
2006-11-05 21:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy starts avoiding you it usually means hes lost intrest in you. So i would talk to him
2006-11-05 21:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋