i m an eastern girl and i m in love with a guy who has not finished his college study yet for his father's death and he still got 2 years before getting his college certificate. in the eastern societies when a girl whose father passed away her uncle take his place to decide for her in such matters. the guy i love is so kind and loves me so much. plus he has nothing but his studying to stop our engagement but my uncle says we should wait at least one year before getting engaged..And my mpm says we should listen to him and wait but i knew the guy for 2 years and we feel we need to move on not to wait more..any ideas ..thx
2006-11-05 13:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by heba2035 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well I'm a western girl and after the age of 18, we make our own decisions! My advice is to do what feels right to you.
2006-11-05 13:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by spacedchic00 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your elders advice. If the two of you love each other like you said, then there is no reason to rush to engagement. He will wait for you and you for him. Then the families will be pleased as well!
2006-11-05 13:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by karen W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Karen. if it is meant to be one more year will not change that. and who knows what will happen in that year. Slow down you have your whole life together. Good Luck
2006-11-05 13:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is your upbringing then you should listen to your uncle. Customs are around for a reason.
2006-11-05 13:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move to the western society where you have your own choices.
2006-11-05 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what ever
2006-11-05 13:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋