ok...so i am going out wih this girl and i like her and stuff, but i keep on considering breaking up with her because she can be annoying and she doesn't pay a whole bunch of attention to me and sometimes it just doesn't feel right that she's my gf..i don't know what to do...can you help me out and give me ur opinion?
2006-11-05 13:16:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my point of view,you should not break up with her. She might be annoying and irritating at times so try to put up with her.If she doesn't pay attention to you,try to find out what she is actually focusing her attention on and make a decision..if you get what i mean.
If you want to break up with her do it in a nice way and try not to hurt her feelings...You must always be tactful in whatever you say
i hope it helps :D
2006-11-05 13:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you don't like her that much, or else you wouldn't be considering breaking up with her in the first place. If it doesn't feel completely right, you're relationship won't last long anyway. You need to think about how important to you it is to stay with this girl, and also if she's going to be reading this. If it were me, I would break up with her, but do what you think is right for you and for her.
2006-11-05 13:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Aurelien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something to consider: No one is perfect. If you find somethings that she does annoying, tell her about it. If you find that she doesn't pay attention to you, talk to her about it. Its all about communication- she might not even know she does these things. After you confront her about it and she doesn't do anything to make the relationship improve, then you should consider dumping her.
2006-11-05 13:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Christel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting lots of internal signals that this is not the girl for you. You already know the answer to your question, and you knew so before you asked it here. Sometimes the confirmation of strangers is just what you need to help you make up your mind. Good luck.
2006-11-05 13:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by LFM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. She may not realize the annoying things that she is doing. Sometimes its easier for us to realize things when they are pointed out. You may catch her off gaurd, but she will appreciate it in the end. Maybe there are some things that you do that annoy her to and this would be the perfect opportunity to better your guys' relationship.
2006-11-05 13:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jaclyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, it's better for you. I don't think you want this kind of girl. GO out there and find a girl who real pay attention.
2006-11-05 13:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like she's in the relationship if she doesn't pay attention to you. I think you should tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same way. If she feels the same way you do then tell her that she needs to show it. If not then say see-ya.
2006-11-05 13:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first started dating I was givin the advice that if you cant picture yourself marrying that person then you probably shouldnt date them. It always led me down the right path. I can happily say that by following that advice I've been happily married for 2 years.
2006-11-05 13:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by bunnyblue421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont feel nothing for her and think iz better to break up with her and juz become friend she will understand .and if u like and dont wan to lose her try talking to her fix the promblems between the two of u and hopefully every thing work out for u
2006-11-05 13:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by *L@ Chic@N@* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't seem to have a whole lot of positive stuff to say. Everyone deserves to be with someone that they feel the sun and moon rises with them and that person reciprocates.
Let her go so she can find someone that feels that way about her and you can find someone that you feel that way about.
2006-11-05 13:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋