I do not know how to go about dating again. Who will want me now? I feel like I am damaged goods. How do I date again? When do I tell someone who maybe interested in dating me that I have herpes?
2006-11-05 13:15:15 · 11 answers · asked by trying to cope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your "boyfriend" when you feel comfortable with him enough to be able to tell him but definately before anything happens so you dont pass it on.
2006-11-05 13:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
While there is no cure for herpes, there are lots of medications out there than can suppress and almost eliminate outbreaks. You're NOT "damaged goods". But you are in a tough position. Any other sexual partners you have from this day forward, you are going to have to be honest with them about your std. Suppression medication and condom use can help reduce the risk of spreading herpes, but any type of skin to skin contact, even if you don't have an outbreak, makes it possible to spread the disease. Seek some counseling and be more careful in the future. But don't give up hope. The man who truly loves you and wants to be by your side forever will be willing to travel down this path with you no matter what.
2006-11-05 13:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the 1st subject you would be able to desire to do is see a women persons's wellness care provider to be examined for different STDs. then you definately in basic terms would desire to attend and spot. there is not any stable attempt for herpes different than to do a subculture of a sore in case you get one. A blood attempt can point out previous exposure to the two Herpes Simplex form I and form II, yet would be unable to distinguish between genital herpes and oral herpes. you're able to attempt helpful for the two form with the aid of fact of a chilly sore you had once you have been a new child. So that's no longer an invaluable attempt. in case you get any variety of sore on your genital section, make an appointment precise away, and your clinician can subculture it. So, wait and spot, perhaps you will no longer get it. in case you do, you're between the, a lot of human beings. There are treatments available to shrink the frequency and severity of outbreaks. yet attempt to no longer subject approximately what would possibly no longer even ensue. Get examined for all the different stuff, continually use condoms, and need for the main suitable. planned Parenthood will see you confidentially, yet you in all probability desire an appointment. they have particular costs for youths. i'm including this later -- there are maximum of mean, ignorant human beings, i would be unable to even have self belief it. Calling you names and telling you your existence is over! they do no longer understand what they are speaking approximately. approximately 15% of the inhabitants has had genital herpes. lots of those human beings infrequently ever have a virus, like perhaps each 5 years or greater. people who do have regularly occurring outbreaks can administration this with drugs. Congenital herpes in toddlers is amazingly uncommon, in basic terms approximately exceptional, with the aid of fact (lower back) that's controlled. you will get by using this, and additionally you would be superb.
2016-10-03 07:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is an A**hole! There is no pretty way to tell people about that. When the time comes and you do have to tell someone. make sure they know that it wasn't your fault. There are lots of people with herpes though. You will be fine....Im so sorry.....What a JERK
2006-11-05 13:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off i would find the boyfriend and castrate his *** and then i would go see a therapist and try to get some of this off your chest stop stressing girl go to your doctor and get the facts about herpes your very lucky he didnt give you aids but i would castrate the ****
2006-11-05 13:21:11
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Look love, life will go on...your not worthless and isn't your fault...and you are not damaged goods...just be honest...you may lose some but you will find someone...
urashortie103092 shut it...who are we to cast the 1st stone
2006-11-05 13:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by loofa36 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why did you even do anything that would give you herpes if he is only your boyfriend. That's not safe and now you just have to suffer the consequences of not thinking before you act.
2006-11-05 13:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by urashortie103092 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You should tell the person right when you start dating them and if they leave then screw them you don't need them you'll find someone that really cares for you no matter what.
2006-11-05 13:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, contact a attorney and sue the pig.
Before you have sex with someone you tell them. Let them make up their mind if they want to continue.
2006-11-05 13:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy' see a doc and get on some meds.. and do not feel that way... good luck
2006-11-05 13:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋