I'm a guy savin my virginity, but I'm worried that if I DO save my virginity then I won't have any idea what I'm doing. Is it a better idea to just get some previous practice, cause I don't want it to be awkward... and I think I'm gonna lose it to the right girl soon.. any opinions and advice?? thanks
2006-11-05 13:12:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to tell u the truth, i didnt wanna just do any girl either. I was lucky and met my future wife at at 16 and was not a virgin by my 17th bday. you will most likely suck bad the first time and not last long. as long as she loves you than she won't care. When you love a girl, passion is also important along with how it feels. If the passion is there, it will feel good and she will love IT and you.
2006-11-05 13:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by renneyday 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt many people are 'smooth' the first time they have sex...it's a new experience, but there some instinct to guide you and style/finesse will come in time...
I would recommend against "doing it just to be doing it" as you're putting yourself at too much risk of STDs or getting a chick pregnant, just to "practice"...
If you feel a girl is the "right girl" then she'll be kewl even with your awkwardness and you'll learn each other's bodies and what you like together...
Being a virgin isn't a problem...but consequences of sex with the wrong person, or not using proper protection when you do so, CAN be...
2006-11-05 13:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex the first time with anyone is awkward, regaurdless if you have had sex previously or not. So don't stress about it. Sex comes natural, I am sure you will figure it out. If its the right girl and she really likes you then you being "awkward" isn't going to be a big deal at all. I think the fact that you are a virgin is a good tihng. People rush into it way to quick. Sex only complicates relationships sometimes. So think about it, make the right decision for you, and not because everyone else is doing it.
2006-11-05 13:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jaclyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a refreshing view from a younger guy!...I think that is awesome!..Do not worry about not being perfect at doing it the first time!!..You will have lots of time after wards to get it right and practice. Just think of all the fun you and your girl will have doing that!
There is nothing wrong with waiting..please do not worry about not knowing what to do..there are so many books out there you can read..lots of pictures etc...you know..there are things you can buy at s e x stores that would let you practice if you really want to..but.. honestly..don't worry about..it's not that hard..:-)
2006-11-05 13:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know how old you are... but I think it is a god thing saving it for the right woman. Believe it or not... the girl will like the fact. Hopefully you are planning on telling her. You wont feel awkward.. it will come natural to you.. If you and your girl have been together for a long time.. then I think that is great.. and that is a huge gift for her!!! :)
2006-11-05 13:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please think before you have "sex/make love" to someone! If you are a virgin you need to think before your words are spoken and think before you act. Don't just give yourself to anyone that's how people end up with babies here and there. So keep a good head on your shoulders and think with your real head not down there. Don't let people put you down because you have Morales about yourself. Keep your head up high!
If you need help look up some sex books there are a lot of ways to perform in bed. To practice try using some what similar mores on the dance flour and see if you can pull it off. Bye that I mean make her feel sexy and turned on, and you should feel energy flowing through one another. Good Luck! >MOVE YOUR HIPS!<
2006-11-05 13:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by angelina_hopkins83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get previous practice. As long as you are waiting, wait for the right girl. And don't worry about it being awkward, if you have a connection, everything will work out fine.
2006-11-05 13:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save it for someone worthwhile. She won't care that you're inexperienced, especially if you let her know you were waiting for someone really special.
DON'T watch pornos to see what to do. Those are geared to what guys want to see much more than what a woman wants!
Use protection when it does happen. Unless you're ready to be a father now, or to possibly get an STD for the rest of your life. You wouldn't believe how many teenagers and younger people have them!
2006-11-05 13:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the right moment comes, whether that comes before or after marriage, or whenever you're thinking of losing it. DON'T lose it just to get experience. If you think you're going to lose it to the right girl soon, they she'll understand if it's a bit awkward at first. If she doesn't, is she really the right girl?
2006-11-05 13:16:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok look at pornos see how they do it.this may be embarassing but try and jerk off tell her your a virgin and make sure that if u look at a porno u know where the hole is and just take it slow and hopefully u know how 2 put on a condom.peace
2006-11-05 13:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by cagedanimal88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋