I want to trust my boyfriend but i have been feeling uneasy about his "friendship" with a female in his department. My boyfriend and some of his guy friends and this girl work out on the weekends together. He has never invited me. I went today ran into them. She always seems very uncomfortable and confused when I am around, notictiable tension in the air. I try to speak but she only mummbles. She knows that he is my boyfriend and she has a boyfriend of her own. My boyfriend tells me that there is nothing going on with them and that she thinks I don't like her. Hmmmm what do you think is really going on.
2006-11-05 13:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, my father cheated with his female room mate so i don't think u should feel comfortable about this situation. Test: go to his apartment without notice, knock on the door, and if it takes him a really long time to answer the door, and he looks like he just changed, you should REALLY not feel comfortable. remember, confront him! but nicely and calmly. dont outburst, because accusation might be wrong. also, if he cheats on you, you should break up, its not marriage. (no divorce papers involved)
2006-11-05 13:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Brightside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i wouldnt trust it. number one a boyfriend should invite you to hang out with them-definitely! and number two, you think he would want to. girlfriend, and friends at the same time- best of both worlds. the fact that this girl is uncomfortable around you could mean a few things. maybe they are doing something, and she never thought she'd have to run into you. or maybe he's just been hitting on her, and flirting and stuff- but nothing actually physical. or maybe he lied to her about having a girlfriend- and he just got busted in it, and being his friend she didnt know what to say to you about it. honestly, it sounds bad. that's just my opinion though- maybe you should find a way to talk to her in private. i love making new friends.. considering i am in the same kind of relationship. my names devon- im 22, write me at allalongisallweare@hotmail.com.. maybe we could IM?
2006-11-05 13:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by GoTtHeLiFe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. If you feel something is up, it probably is. It might not be the worse case scenerio, but something is rotten in Denmark.
2006-11-05 13:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by kmchris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im soory to say this but you and i both know that he is cheating on you with her! because if he wasnt he would introuduce and welcome you with him when she is around. but my advice to you is too dump him before you really get hurt!!!
2006-11-05 13:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by .:baby*gurl*aliyah:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating.
2006-11-05 13:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋