I have recently moved away from my girlfriend, and being on different continents, it makes things a bit difficult. Any advice on what to do to make the time go by easier?
2006-11-05 13:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by gabe1116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Daily IM'ing with web cams, regular tel calls (use calling card - its cheaper) and emails. Thats all you can do. If she drifts apart - you will know because she is always too busy for you.
2006-11-05 13:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by fffrrreeeddd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST, COMMUNICATION, HONESTY... My husband is currently serving his second year tour over in Iraq. The seperation is very hard. The first deployment was a disaster. This year has gone great. You have to trust her. Don't interogate eachother. Give eachother the benefit of the doubt. Be completely honest. Tell eachother everything. If you open that line of communication then things will go smoothly. Pick and choose arguements. My husband and I found that we argue alot more on the phone. We decided its a combo of being away from eachother, and loneliness. We tended to argue about nothing. When we start to argue now, we tend to stop eachother because we realize why we are really fighting. So pick and choose your arguements.
2006-11-05 13:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jaclyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people are in LDR these days and the best way to make it plentiful for both parties involved is to use the power of modern technology. In other words, try and talk as you would if you lived close by to one another. Possible solutions would be using AOL instant messanger, myspace, and/or e-mail to correspond as much as you would both like. Don't forget to get a calling card every so often and talk in person. Best of luck.
2006-11-05 13:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by DN1503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question you have to answer HONESTLY...are we going to or can we ever be in the same continent again. If there is a chance...you have to follow your heart. Let her know what she is to you. Do you both share the same dream for the future? Do not be rash in what you do. follow your heart.
2006-11-05 13:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by trying to cope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend's on a different continent too- and what i do is just keep thinking about the day i'm finally gonna be able to see him again.
2006-11-05 13:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember every day the one you truly love.. and remember the reasons why they are more to you than a new person could be.
2006-11-05 13:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by GoTtHeLiFe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is tehre a chance your going to see her again. if not best bet is to move on if you will see her again stay with her and stick it out but your best bet will be to move on trust me it will save you both alot of heartache
2006-11-05 13:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by *~*~*BABYDOLL*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in touch, communication is everything in a relationship, if u loose communication, u loose everything, call her, email her just tell her u r still alive and care...
2006-11-05 13:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by dreamz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to make it work there has to be trust and constant communication send each other letters pictures and call each other
2006-11-05 13:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by smiley girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare to be cheated on
2006-11-05 13:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋